My ex broke up with me to get back with his ex I appreciate that he was honest and all but what do i do now if I really Love him and I still have to see him every week since we have class together I even had to put up with seen him with her since we all go to the same church.Should I give it a try and tell him how I feel about him or should I keep my feelings to myself and keep crying everytime I see him? Also im confused because when he broke up with me he made me promise me that we were gonna be friends and well i couldnt say no and he still seems to care about what i do or the things that happen to me.Do u think he still likes me?
2007-03-11 11:28:18 · 4 answers · asked by Ana C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, tough break! But here's the deal he broke up w/you...you said he was honest about it. Sure your gonna have feelings for him... he sounds like a decent guy. I hate to keep saying but....but he evidently had the kind of feelings that you have for him about his ex. Whatta you gonna do about something like that? He has to do what he feels is best for him and I know it sucks badly that you have to see him like you do and that you're hurting. With this type of situation there's no getting around it without somebody getting hurt and unfortunately you were on the receiving end. He evidently cares about you to still want to be friends and you guys shared some good times I'm sure so I'm gonna say that he still has some feelings for you and who knows what the future may bring. Maybe he'll break up w/her again you never know about these things or maybe you'll find someone else? I wouldn't pressure him any by telling him that you still care about him..I'm sure he knows! You have to try and get over it for now as quick as you can so you can be there for him as a friend. You don't want to be bitter about things because that'll get you nowhere fast. Just be his friend and be hers as well and show him that you are still the awesome person that you were when you guys were going out and that you are a most awesome friend as well when you aren't going out. The feelings are still raw and it's just gonna take some time, but think about what I've said you'll understand. I Promise and Good luck! G.
2007-03-11 12:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by G=ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You may have just been a filler for him, while he was waiting to get back with his ex.
Hate to be so harsh, but it's true.
Get over him, switch churches or go at a different time, and break off all contact if it makes you cry/feel upset all the time. You need to move on.
2007-03-11 18:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by Fabulously Broke in the City 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you to get back with his ex, then no. Even if he says he still wants to be friends. Sorry hun, thats just how it is. Have hope though...if you stay friends with him, maybe he'll want to get back with you.
2007-03-11 18:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Chelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-03-11 18:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by Atila a 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋