There's a guy at work who stares at me a lot. When we walk past eachother he would look me in the eye for two seconds and then look down quickly.
Other times when he just walks past me (and I'm faced another direction... talking to a customer), he would stare directly at me as he walks past.
I think that he finds it difficult to talk to me. He usually only talks to me when no other co-workers are around. We don't talk a lot but when we do, he's always the one who initiates the conversation and it's usually about school. He often comments on how smart I am (3.7 college GPA).
I don't know if he likes/dislikes me or he's just shy-- well, I'm kinda shy too.
2007-03-11 11:20:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes shy. very shy and i would no because i am exactly the same way. i like to look at the guy that i like and when i get his attention i look away. i also only talk to him when there are no other people around. i know that you maybe shy too but he likes you and you know then that he wont reject you so make a move on him because i really dont think that he would.
2007-03-11 11:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is shy and he does like you but is afraid that you may reject him or maybe he thinks he has no chance with you. If you like him, talk to him and ask him what is really going on. If you don't feel the same way then you might want to let him know before he works up enough courage to approach you and you turn him down, then that would really damage him. You could try having another type of conversation with him and slip that in there or you can let it go on and see how long it can go. But it seems that you have noticed so it is only right that you respond the way that you feel. Talk to him and just speak from your heart. I understand that you may be shy too, but if it puzzles you enough then it is only right to get some clarification on this whole ordeal. Good Luck!
2007-03-11 11:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by mamashortydoowop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely shy. Shy guys don't like to talk to the girl they like when other people are around because they don't want people to "know" they're attracted to someone. And if he's commenting on your smarts, that's a good sign!
2007-03-11 11:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by purplegrl28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him? It sounds like he has some definite feelings for you, although I'm like you and sort of befuddled as to what they are exactly ha ha! Anyway, if you like him, you should let him know that you do. A smile here and there, and one of those times you're passing each other down the hall and he looks at you, smile and say hello. Little things like that go a long way. Best of luck!
2007-03-11 11:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's the shy type of course he likes you and if you are not in a relationship with anyone why not give it a go and ask him if he likes you if he is the shy type he will mutter yes and say "well ok want to go out" and if it works out great hope you guys are good but if you do not like him then tell him its good at friends and you are flattered that he likes you and if he turns into a creepy stalker than become meaner and say "Back the HELL OFFFFFFFF ASSHOLE"
2007-03-11 11:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you but is just really shy. Next time he looks your way smile at him, then say hi, and work up to conversations. If you try and break the ice, he'll see that you like him and will open up to you!
2007-03-11 11:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you and is checking you out. he's hoping for eye contact. besides the undeniable fact that he's afraid to refer to you he needs to make a connection by catching your eye. believe me make eye contact and he will seem away yet he will know you talked about him and that would want to be adequate to bypass on to step 2 as for step 2 that relies upon on how the first step went and in case you advise on transferring on to step 3
2016-10-17 11:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by pataki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's shy. If he wasn't attracted to you he wouldn't initiate conversation with you.
2007-03-11 11:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by acuity007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's shy. If your interested in him also...bump shoulders or touch him 'accidentally'. That should open him up. Good Luck.
2007-03-11 11:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by drysac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just shy. try to find something he likes that will give you an in and it will be ez for him to talk to you.
2007-03-11 11:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋