so my ex boyfriend broke up with me a while ago because he, "needed a break". he told me not to worry since he was sure we'd be together again in the future. well one thing lead to another, and we kind of started disagreeing some, and to make things short...we almost never talk anymore.
so as time has passed, i sort of in a sense, have moved on a bit, in liking someone new. im sure my ex knows about this, and doesnt like it too much.
mmk well lately it seems like he's beein IMing me more than usual, and last night he IMed me being a complete ***. at first, im sure he was trying to make me mad, because he was talking about my friends and how he thinks some of them are "hot". then blah blah blah...and when i asked him to leave me alone, he started apologizing and being all sad. i asked him why, and he told me because i was "shoeing" him away and he was getting excited thinking about me, and certain aspects in our past relationship. i was furious.
2007-03-11 11:19:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know where this came from or what this means...or what he wants.
what do you think?
one more thing...i believe he was drunk...
2007-03-11 11:20:51 · update #1
It's a pussy's way of saying he's leaving you and never wants to talk to you again. Move on.
2007-03-11 11:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by acuity007 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it means either A. He doesnt know what he wants either. or B. He's trying to make you miserable by confusing you.
I don't think he's serious about a relationship with you, and If I were you, I wouldn't consider taking him back. I had a friend who took her boyfriend back serveral times after he "needed a break" and she ended up being hurt everytime he said it.
Men can be jerks sometimes (Not to say females cant be, but its mostly men!)
2007-03-11 11:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to start talking again via instant messanger and it could lead to you two getting back together. If you still care for him and want to see where it goes and/or you want to be friends with him, then talk to him on the computer and eventually you two should open up. See where it goes but keep the communication open and in the end it should work out...
2007-03-11 11:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by DN1503 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds a little like my ex-husband when we split up. It's almost like he wanted to get back together....but not really. What it boiled down to was he wanted me to be sitting at home pining for him and it pissed him off when that didn't happen.
My best advice is to move on with your life. You'll find each other again if it's meant to be...but you have to ask yourself if you want to be with someone who "needs to take a break" every so often. You're better off finding someone who loves you full time...even when he doesn't always like you.
Best of luck...
2007-03-11 11:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by motomouth_1965 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was the problem...he was drunk! Move on! If you have lost the feelings and are starting to feel for someone else...you have already moved on emotionally! You might need some type of closure, but you'll have to figure that one out! Good luck!
2007-03-11 11:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by thestashman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just being an ***, forget abt him and move on, if you found someone new that you like then sart going out with him when that time comes. Forget abt ur ex, like i said hes being an *** and also really jelous because you found someone new. Good Luck!
2007-03-11 11:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you still love him? if so your crazy! i dont know his problem but you need to ask him he if still likes you. If he says yes then be like "well don't call my friends hott in front of me!" and if he says no be like"u lied!" and if he said he only needed a break from you for a while then dont take it! because what happens if you get married and he needs a break of you! my point clear
2007-03-11 11:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by ashluvsyou42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-20 03:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex- boyfriend wants to keep you "in the wings", just in case. He doesn't want you to move on until he moves on first. My advice--move one. Don't let him get to you and just cut the cord. You're broken up--that's it. You're moving on, of course he doesn't like it, but if you want to start living your life, you're going to have to do it without him
2007-03-11 11:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by katmusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably misses you. coudl have also been the alcohol talking. i dont belive youve really moved on like u said if u even asking this question.
2007-03-11 11:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋