im 14 why could this happen??? I have long blonde hair and long legs. My bust is only a34 tho =/ but i personally think im quite attractive... why could this happen???
2007-03-11 11:12:11 · 21 answers · asked by [[<3]] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart when you grow into a woman, those same guys who gives you sh!t now will be scratching at your door later. AS far as older guys, they are after only one thing, please don't do it.Because once they get what they want, you won't see them again,or you could get pregnant or an STD.
Do me a favor, stay in school, and go to college, so you can get a good job and not have to depend on anyone. You have the rest of the your life to find a boyfriend.
Never ever let anyone make you do something your not sure about. I'm a man and a dad and I would hope someone would give either of my daughters the same advise.
Make the most of your youth, there will be plenty of time for the grown up stuff.
Hope this helps, email me if you need too
2007-03-11 11:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by walker9842 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is your body not your face they are lookin' at. You are too young to be worrying about how you may or may not be hot. Get an education. Forget this stuff. You will end up with a baby on your hip and not much else at the rate you are going. Grow up before you start thinking about such nonsense. Think about your grade average instead of your bust size. Your bust is not that big believe me. Don't pat yourself on the back until you get straight A's in school. Anyone can be a bimbo.
2007-03-11 11:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Bill. The older guys know that they can manipulate you by telling you things that a younger guy hasn't figured out how to say yet. You're too young to worry about relationships just yet. Right now, just have fun. By the time you're 18, you'll have guys your age scrambling to be in your presence. Girls mature faster than guys. This means that, while you've most likely gone through puberty and are starting to see the world in a different way, the guys around you still think you have cooties. Don't worry about it. Everything will be ok. And, just in case, if the older guys you're talking about are in their 20's or ,God forbid older than that... PLEASE don't consider dating them or anything. They do not have your best interests in mind. Ok? Take care, you'll be alright.
2007-03-11 11:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by Godfather76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because the guys your age are still young and don;t really know what a good catch is yet. You have plenty of time to meet that special someone. Besides you know it's not you because you said yourself that the older guys hit on you and find you attractive. Since girls mature faster than boys you will have to wait until those guys are on your level.
2007-03-11 11:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guys your age are still immature. and your only 14 you have plenty of time to find a guy, dont go for someone older you who flatters you because they are only interested in having sex with you, and if they want more than sex its offten a lie, if its not a lie it still wont work out cause your underage and agaisnt the law to pursue a older guy. just sit back and relax things would change when you hit highschool because its way bigger than middle school. right now focus on your school your to young to worry about finding a guy.
hope that helps you. :)
2007-03-11 11:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys that age are usually too immature . You sound attractive and if u think u are then you are. Older guys might be saying that just to get some, but just whatever, dont date, its not a requirement. just focus on important things like school. Boys come later on in high school
2007-03-11 11:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by Yhpargotohp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite sad when a young person like yourself has these kinds of issues. At fourteen, you shouldn't have these kinds of stresses. Love yourself more so that you won't develop problems with your self -esteem.Talk to your parents or an adult that you can trust. If you don't you may be skyrocketing towards making some serious mistakes.
2007-03-11 11:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by sackemonsunday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of young guys are shallow and superficial wheras older guys have more life experience and know better what traits make a person attractive....
NB. Some older guys are shallow and superficial too but you know what I mean....
2007-03-11 11:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by chimerauk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality? I think that's what's most important. You're young, you'll look back 5 years from now and realize that those guys your age weren't worth your time. Enjoy your youth, don't care what people say, it'll only hurt you.
2007-03-11 11:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by lolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As adolescents men are heavily driven by obvious signals such as breast size and lip size. Later, as they mature they develop an eye for the line of the whole body and the shape of the backside.
2007-03-11 11:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by Wang Hung 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋