i'm 15 years old and live with my aunt and uncle and they have high expectations of me . i just found out that i'm pregnant and me and my babys father want to know some suggestions on what we should do, and ways that we should tell my aunt and his mother when we have no idea how they may react.!?we have chose to have the baby, please help all suggestions welcome.!!!???
2007-03-11 11:01:47 · 13 answers · asked by livinitupin09 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Keep the baby.
Be an adult about it and tell your aunt and uncle quickly.
Abortion should be non-issue since you played and now you pay.
The baby(fetus, embryo) had no choice in the matter so taking its life away shouldn't be an option.
2007-03-11 11:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Tomak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your aunt and uncle as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the harder it will get. You have to just sit them down and tell them that you are pregnant. It will be hard for them to accept, but they will get used to it. They will probably also be disappointed.
Also, if you or your boyfriend decide that, even though you thought you wanted the baby, you don't want it, consider adoption. If you find out that you can't take care of the baby, you could even consider an open adoption, where the baby knows you, and you can spend time with the baby, but the adoptive parents are the parents and are responsible for caring for the child.
2007-03-11 11:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Catherine♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 also... Honestly, I would love to be the position you are in. Me and my BF really love each other and we talk about having a baby all the time.
I know it is hard to think of the best way to tell them but all you gotta do is just be cofident and honest. You and your boyfriend, and his parents, along with your aunt & uncle, need to sit down all together. You and your BF should then start telling them. Remember to keep telling them how much you understand the mistake you made and how much you understand the consequences. But please do me a favor and DO NOT get an abortion. You need to tell them that you both REFUSE to have an abortion and that you insist on having the baby. :) ... they are going to all be very dissapointed but remember this:
They will ALWAYS love you!!
I wish you all the best!! And if you do decide to not have the baby, put it up for adoption and help someone who is not able to have children, instead of killing it with an abortion!!
By the way... CONGRATS!!
Good Luck!!
:)
2007-03-11 11:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by S3Xii ♥ R3D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
alright i know exactly what you are going through. The easiest way and simplest way to say it is just say im pregnant because if you try and be nice and have a nice conversation with them they will forget once you tell them. Yes they might be dissapointed at first but just go with it. Once you have the baby (since you chose to have it) they will forget all about it because they will be happy and they will just be all over the baby.. i hope i helped.. good luck
2007-03-11 11:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by Yhpargotohp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am glad that you have decided to have the baby. i dont think there is an easy way to tell your aunt and uncle, so my best bet would to be sit them both down together and calmly tell them that you are pregnant and have decided to have the baby. they may not take it easily, so just let them let it out and try not to start a fight. good luck and best wishes.
2007-03-11 11:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to come right out and tell them. It can be very hard though. I was 19 years old and I was still scared to tell my parents. Just make sure and tell them all of your plans on how you are going to take care of the baby and that you would like to have their support while going through this.
2007-03-11 12:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kristin R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 11 and I am not a you know what but i'm not proud of it either.....but I have gotten in this sitchuation where I thought I was and well I live with my aunt and uncle and I sat them down and told them and I said please don't yell because I need all the support I can get!!!!!
2007-03-11 11:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kristina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally im happy your chosing to keep the baby, you took the risk by having sex and now a stepping up to the plate, im proud. just because your having a baby doesnt mean you cant still make something of yourself, just tell your aunt and his mom that you need to talk to them and ask them not to inturupt untill your finished. expect for them to be upset but they will understand and be happy. best of luck to you and him.
2007-03-11 11:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by Juliace & Cheyenne's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the two of you need to sit with each of them and tell them as soon as possible
it will be scary~ but it's the best thing to do
good luck
2007-03-11 11:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by ~*common sense*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit them down with ur boyfriend and tell them. its a really hard thing to do because since they have high expectations they probly want u to go to college or sumthin. just explain it to em and hope they'll understand. and if ur bf is old enough, u have enough money, and they react negatively then u can get emancipated.
2007-03-11 11:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋