well around september I met this really cute older guy I mean I really thought he was the one even though we ony talked for a little while he really made me feel different than any other guy. I didnt treat him like any other guy I mean I usually made other guys spend money on me an stuff before the got to any off the bases but with him I dont kno he jus made me weak I didnt make him do any of those things an still he got to many of the bases. he used to tell me every day how much he liked me but we really didn't talk much we were more on a physical level. every thing was going perfect an he used to tell me that he would never hurt me that he would jus stop messin with me if it came to that point. so all of a sudden he stop calling an coming around and I felt really stupid jus because I fell for what he said he wasnt doing an that was playin games with me. I thought it was jus KARMA because I had did so many other guys wrong an someone I really stared to like did me the same way.
2007-03-11 10:53:09 · 11 answers · asked by miss. k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
karma is a *****.
find a guy that will treat you right. and worth treating right.
2007-03-11 10:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by yelah1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to be positive and realistic rather than put you down. It also depends on what you did with those other guys. Were you just doing what every woman does normally (ask and receive gifts, have guys respect you, etc.) and accept how women are supposed to be treated (they please you, spoil you, etc) and given (gifts, respect) according to morality? If you were, then I don't think it was karma. I believe karma is only for those who intend to do wrong. There are people who are really mean and do not care. I believe those are the ones who really pay later on in life. But if you were doing this to those other guys because you were selfish, then remember this sayings: "Do not unto others what you wouldn't like others do unto you", and "Eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth". If you did those things unconsciously then this guy just wanted to fool around or you turned him off easily by being too nice to him. With those other guys, were you not attracted to them because they would treat you too nice, or because there was no spice, everything was too easy and boring? I believe that is what just happened with that guy, you put it too easy for him that it was boring. You gave in too easy and did not put limits on him. Usually when you put a limit on a person, they feel challenged some way or another and wants to exceed it or wants to find some pleasure out of it. By you handing a person everything easily (most of us think this way), they think you're not too smart, and they will think of you like this throught the time you know each other because they are not doing much for you and you are. He probably thought you did not have much respect for yourself by doing all this, and that he was your everything, which may sound to him as if you were obsessed. Nobody likes that. He may have also have thought that he was taking advantage and decided to stop it before it could get any worst and not be able to break it off peacefully in the future. You should thank him he left because if he was a really mean guy he could have taken advantage of you for a long time and ruined you both mentally and financially. Try not to call him, as things may get worst. Most of the guys who are nice and are in fact looking for seriousness in a relationship want a girl who has self respect, are smart, strong willed, supportive, happy and can be like a best friend.
2007-03-11 18:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's karma although it's said what goes around comes around, he was just a player sound's like telling you everything you wanted to hear and make you feel good and then when he was tired of it he lost intrest of whatever, just be aware cus most come back again and you don;t want to reap eat what you did because you'll feel even more hurt, whatever live and learn for the next time and i guess he wasn't for you but it hurts if you really liked him, i know this but just watch out for next time, some guy's just want friends with benefit's with no emotional attachment, which sucked cuz you really liked him, just move on and try to take thing's slower if you really like the guy, if you talk more you'll kind of see what type of guy he is, just never do on to someone what you would want done onto you ...only if it'd good, Later
Take Care XXX
2007-03-11 18:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know whether to believe in karma or not, i mean sometimes i do, but then sometimes i just get confused. Like in your case, if you think, what happened to u was bad karma because u did the same thing to others, well I am wondering, why did the others have to go through what u did to them??? Shouldn't it be their Bad karma too??? And if they did bad to someone and got what the deserved, so that makes u someone God just picked to punish someone else. Then doesn't that make u a nice person who did the deed for God???
LOL! I know i sound so confused!!! But forget it, the world his full of jerks, he was probably married with his wife pregnant and so he did you. Just typical guy nature. It happens. Chill and move on! ENJOY LIFE!!!
2007-03-11 18:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a chance he might be in jail? When you try calling him is his phone still on? Not sure. Just to let you know it does not matter how how the guy is they all play games. Age does not stop that. They just get good at it. if you have a county web site check the courts to see if something happened. It's not Karma, it's the game...
2007-03-11 18:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by prettybrowneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like they say "what goes around comes around". Maybe it wasn't karma, but you may never know this could be a lesson for what you did to certain guys that may not deserved it...don't beat urself about it, what happened, happened...if it is what u think it is, which is karma, then thats showing you what you put some men thru and now you know how it feels...think of it as a lesson.
2007-03-11 18:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by indiekajol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its funny in life, you get back what you put in. If you use people they will use you. If you are positive and happy this will come back to you,, if you are negative that negativity will come back 2 fold on you. I hate to say this, but you had it coming. If this is not what you want in life, then you have to start putting into life what you want back. Be positive, happy and love others with all your heart and you will get it all back and be happy for the first time in your life. Take care Heather
2007-03-11 17:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally believe in karma, but only you yourself would actually know if it was. Sounds to me like this guy is a complete jerk and was only after one thing. Sorry to hear he did that to you.
2007-03-11 17:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma in the Dharma-based religions - Hinduism - Buddhism.Whats ur religion?God bless you.
2007-03-11 17:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by Atila a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is the belief that what goes around, comes around.
2007-03-11 17:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋