What do I do when my mom hates my boyfriend?

Question

My mom hates my boyfriend with a passion. Everytime I mention his name she says "you're not seeing that boy" or something related to it. She wont let me go over to his house and hang out with him or anything. I know she's trying to look after me because she said "I just want what is best for you and what will make you happy", but then she's taking away my boyfriend, which does make me happy. Also she doesnt like his age, cause we're 3 years apart. He's been in LCJC also. So what do I do about this. I love him with all my heart, but she just doesnt see it.

Answer 1

follow your heart, you mum is being a mum its what all mums do! i did loads of things in my past and lied to my mum about boys and about places i went,because if i had todl her she would of never of let me see them or go out on adventures,but as the verdict im glad i did wat i wanted to because as a result i learnt 4 myself were to go were not to who to hanga round wiv who not to who to be with and who not to be with, if you want you could listen to your mum and always wonder what if? or you could just do it and see what happens, follow your heart (if you havent watched sister act 2 watch it becoz on there it shows how rita does what she wants to do and follows her heart and cumes out wiv a gd outcome, ) gd luk xxx

Answer 2

Tell your mom to trust your judgement.
If you truly do love your boyfriend explain your feelings to you mother. He's your happiness and she should try to understand that. Maybe she's too attached to you and doesn't want to see you grow up.
Just tell her how you feel.
BEST OF LUCK!

Answer 3

well you know what it is not your mom's choose to pick out who she wants you to date, right!?! also if you really care about someone like your boyfriend, don't let your mom get in the way with your relation ship with him, OK

Answer 4

Listen to your mother. She has had years of experience.

Answer 5

Her house, her rules.