Okay so whenever I mention I wanna lose some weight or that I'm on a diet people start saying stuff like 'girl you're just fine' or 'are you serious?' or 'you must be kidding'. The thing is I know I'm fat! Maybe not size 12 fat but I know I don't look like the pretty skinny girl and I know there are some flab to lose!!Sometimes they make me feel like I must have BDD or sth!! They all see me as a very pretty attractive nice shaped person when I see my self as an average chubby person! What's wrong with me.. or them!?
Why do people do that?! Are they tryina make me feel better or are they just blind?!
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I'm a size 6 :S I know!! I'm 126 lbs and I'm 5'4.. I'm ashamed!
2007-03-11 10:37:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Seriously, your not fat. Im 5' 6" and weigh 128 lbs and I am fine.
2007-03-11 10:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is to feel good with your self and body. First you have to love it for what it is now and then if you see you can refine something on you, you can do it. Start repairing that thing about being ashamed that you wrote. That's where it all begins from.If you don't like your body it's not only for what it looks but because of what you are inside. I may sound mean, but I'm not, you'll see. If you want to loose wait in order to love your body, this is never going to happen. Of course being fit is a great thing and i know, i was fat more than 12 size fat, and only when i loved my body even this huge body i was able to make it the way i wanted. I'm now size 10 and still going, but i like ME! if your friends say you're OK and you fell you want to do something more for you, then do it, don't tell. You'll see what they have to say then. They may like you the way you are, but they may as well like you even more 6 lbs less. try it but don't overdo it and cause any problems to your body OK?
Good luck and always do as you feel like, not as others say.
2007-03-11 10:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by helena_m_p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I was going to respond and say you're probably just fine, then you said you're fat but not size 12 fat, like a size 12 is morbidly huge, and then I got a little miffed.
Young girls your age (a teenager no doubt) need to stop worrying so much about your weight and stop judging people by their weight and size. You all act as though you have eating disorders but if you'd just stop judging each other by who's smaller than who then you'd all feel better about YOURSELVES. Stop it!!!!!! Eventually everyone will get tired of hearing you complain about your "huge" size 6 butt and leave. Not because you're so disgustingly huge (said in jest), but because you have a really bad attitude.
2007-03-11 11:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Informed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you serious? i might provide something to be a length 6 and weight 126 pounds. i'm a similar top as you yet weigh 30 pounds extra and positioned on double your length. recover from it. you're spectacular in the midst of the appropriate favourite physique mass index class. you're completely favourite and at a very healthful weight. And only so which you're conscious, length 12 - 14 is the verage length of an american female.
2016-11-24 21:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a mix. You don't sound like you're as small as a supermodel, but then again, who really is? And you certainly aren't fat. Part of it IS you. Your friends aren't blind, but maybe they're far sighted. They are trying to make you feel better, because nobody wants to feel fat. But maybe they also think you could be smaller. But everyone other than anorexics and supermodels could be smaller. You sound fine to me! Everybody has extra "flab," but thats not really a bad thing. Don't worry about it. :D
2007-03-11 10:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Rose♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem like weight is your problem. Its your self-esteem. You have to learn to love who ever looks back at you in the mirror, regardless of what you see on TV. I don't quite understand how a size 6 person could see themselves as fat, but if you've got flab, tone up. Don't focus on losing weight. Your weight is fine. Just work out with weights. Men like curves anyhow.
2007-03-11 10:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by dance4praise 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think you are crazy.... there are plenty of women who would give anything to have your body..... you need to stop thinking you are fat, because you really are nowhere near being fat
2007-03-11 10:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by jim 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do u want us to put you down like that? im sure ur fine.
2007-03-11 10:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by cait12350 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes ....they are blind to your ignorance...obviously if they even answer you....shallow shallow shallow
2007-03-11 10:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋