hey, i didnt try to cheat on you. i just didnt have the heart to break up with you. cuz you were so nice to me. its not that i dont like you i just like kobi more. i hope we can still be friends. SORRY im not a cheater i tried to break up with you but i couldnt decide on who i wanted to go out with
thats the note that he gave me. my friends pretty much ruined his rep. and so now i feel kinda bad. i know i should be mad to but im not. what should i do?
2007-03-11 10:08:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is the note that he gave me
hey, i didnt try to cheat on you. i just didnt have the heart to break up with you. cuz you were so nice to me. its not that i dont like you i just like kobi more. i hope we can still be friends. SORRY im not a cheater i tried to break up with you but i couldnt decide on who i wanted to go out with
what should i do? my friends pretty much killed his rep. and i feel bad for him. should i?
2007-03-11 10:12:21 · update #1
we have already broken up
2007-03-11 10:15:02 · update #2
forget him, TRY and be his friend but it may be hard so i say don't talk to him for a little bit them go for being his friend
2007-03-11 10:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Melly. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything, but don't forgive him and don't be friends with him either. He broke up with you through a note and cheating for toaster's sake. He's a coward and he's not a real man. He's just trying to take the easy way out. Don't give in to it. Don't feel bad for it, girl, you're being too nice.
"SORRY im not a cheater i tried to break up with you"
Liar...don't believe crap like that. If he tried to break up with you, he would have actually tried talking to you about it. He IS a cheater, no matter what he says. I'm telling you now not to make excuses, not that you are, but you might. So don't do anything about it, just leave him be. He'll get what he deserves one day. Karma goes around.
Don't feel bad, chica. There are plenty of other girls out there like you. What ever you do, don't get even. Those type of things never work.
2007-03-11 10:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Dina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself some time away from him. Decide on an amount of time: a week, two weeks, a month, whatever you think would be good, and try to stay out of contact with him for that amount of time. Think about how you feel about what he did and if you can forgive him. What he did is a really low thing to do, especially to someone you care about. Personally, I think the way he said that he likes you, but he likes this other girl more, that should be a huge clue that he's not someone you want in your life, that's an awful thing to say. If I were in your situation, I wouldn't be able to stand even looking at him anymore. But that's also just me.
Give yourself some time, see how you feel about it and go from there.
2007-03-11 10:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by MrMarblesTI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did not break up with you. He hooked up with someone else. He is a cheater, no matter what he says. The note was a play for your sympathy, a way to have his cake and eat it too.
If you're not mad, at least be hurt. You deserve better than some jerk who can't even sincerely apologize, but instead lays it on you "you were so nice to me", "I couldn't decide on who I wanted to go out with". I'd say he decided as soon as he cheated on you.
Eventually you will get mad, and when you do, don't feel guilty for it.
2007-03-11 10:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by Cracea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends, hummm, distant friends, but not close friends. Tell him you understand that he is not mature enough to make the decision, so you will just pass on this one and wait for a guy that is faithful and true. You are a beautiful person and you have no need to share your guy with another. It is not as if any guy will do, you want one that has principles. How he is now is how he plans to be for the rest of his life. You plan to have higher ideals, so you must wait for someone to come along that has the same ideals. He will value you as you want to be valued.
2007-03-11 10:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show his sorry note to every girl you know, guys also, it will be the biggest joke going around. He is a pathetic, spineless cheater that wants it all his way, but wants to "sound like" he has sensitivity, empathy. Sorry dude, you are a cheater, and not a very bright one either.
2007-03-11 10:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends don't want to see you get hurt, so that is why they did what they did. One thing you have to remember is this, he may not have known how to tell you, but he still did something behind your back. Don't feel sorry for him, and don't be mad, move on. He ruined his own reputation by choosing to do what he did.
2007-03-11 10:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by stormzsecret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he didn't mean to, he still cheated. So therefore he's still a cheater no matter what he says.
Just tell your friends to stop doing whatever they're doing, and just go on with your life like normal.
2007-03-11 10:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sometime people dont kno what theyve got untill theyve gone, hun you can always do better its probably destined, one day he will look back at you and think look what i lost! yes he cheated! yes he was in the wrong dont worry he will eventually regret what he lost and dw bout him rep he shld of fort bout dat b4 he decided 2 cheat on you, now its time 4 u 2 live ure life and find sum1 betta ! x
2007-03-11 10:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by xxcharlenebbyxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..can you NOT tell that this guy obviously a) doesnt care enough for you or b) thinks you're too easy and will do whatever he wants behind your back?
Break up with him and find a guy worth keeping..cheaters never deserve a second chance because they already proved their faithfulness to you..
2007-03-11 10:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is slightly strange that you're not mad but hey, it's all the better for you. Less worry and less stress, right? [grins]
What should you do? Nothing. Just move on. Obviously your ex-boyfriend wasn't the brightest French fry in the Happy Meal so you're not missing out on anything.
Enjoy your life without him!
2007-03-11 10:13:30 · answer #11 · answered by Basiate 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋