after a crazy night at a frat house, where I ended up making out with a guy right in front of the entire room on the dance floor and dancing pretty provocatively with him, he kept saying "lets go out" etc., should I ever talk to him again and actually go out...? He is a decent guy... but the night was embarrasing
what would you do?
2007-03-11 10:08:28 · 9 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its great that you have enough sense to be embarrassed by your behavior, but realize that really nobody cares what you were doing as long as you werent stripping down. your friends noticed because they watch and know you. everyone else, really they couldnt care less. i would go out with him again if you want to. tell him that you have never behaved like that before, that he turned you crazy, that if he wants to go out, it wont be continuing from where you last left off. start out being friends. if he doesnt like that idea, then you know what he wants from you...and why.
2007-03-11 10:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has he asked you out? Look, everyone has crazy, embarrassing nights in their pasts...if he asks you out let him know beforehand that what he witnessed was "crazy night girl" and if that's what he's looking for you're not interested. That's all. I wouldn't avoid him..just make it a point to say I remember what I did...it doesn't happen often but it does happen... as it does for EVERYONE!
2007-03-11 17:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to talk with him go ahead but he was asking to go out of there to go ahve sex, Because he knew you were drunk and pretty soon he could have you. SO if you liek him go ahead and call him. But in a frat house partys that's what there are for, to get women to have sex with them.
2007-03-11 17:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out as he might have a geniune interest in you, but let him know you do not typically conduct yourself that way and you were an embarrassment....you'll know right away by his response.
2007-03-11 17:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not yet. get a chance to know the guy. when you feel comfortable, than go right ahead
2007-03-11 17:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by Nick C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you go along with him? It's a suggestion,something you might have said to him.
2007-03-11 17:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hide! yopu made a fool out of yourself! let the person approach you!
2007-03-11 17:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him wait for an answer lol, then say yes. but make sure he knos that u were embarrased that night
2007-03-11 17:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say not yet... be his friend for now and if you feel more secure with him than go for it but only if hes nice
2007-03-11 17:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by Melly. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋