Okay, I moved to a new town. A new school. About a week after i moved a got an email from my ex-boyfriend saying that he is breaking up with me. I met this really hott guy in skool and i asked him out. I BARELY even knew him! He is really nice. But now i found out that we have totally different personalities. I laugh at his jokes when i dont even know what he is talking about. I ditch my friends for him. I act WAAAAY different around him then i do around my friends. When he sees me with my friends I just get really quiet. He doesn't like my friends, but his friends are nice. He doesn't even know the real me!!! What should i do?
2007-03-11 09:57:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well this is a pickle! I would talk to him about it. It helps sometimes. But if you rather not, try a different approach. Keep a mental note on what changes when you are with your friends, when you are with him, when you are with his friends, etc... Now look at them is there anything you want him to know about you? If so, are you hiding it when you are aroudn him? If he really likes you you will have no worries about it. But if he doesn't then it will take some time to get over him since he isn't right for you. The one you care about / love should accept you for who you are, and you shouldn't be ashamed to be yourself around anyone.
2007-03-11 10:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by TechPhox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're boyfriend left you does not mean just pick anyone to go out with for a social dependency, that's a bad habit. You'll grow to be really reliant. You only like that new guy because he's "hot". Don't play games with him, tell him your differences, tell what you don't like about him, but that does not necessarily mean have a break up. It might be right in the end after all. Don't lie to yourself like that.
2007-03-11 17:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that will work out for you. It's like choicing agianst your BF or your BFF. There going th be lots of really hot guy but just a couple of good friends.
2007-03-11 17:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 tell him who u really r. cuz if he finds out by someone elze it'll be a lot worse.
show him the real u and if he doesnt like u the way u really are then he's not the one.
2007-03-11 17:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by krazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him the real you and then see if he likes you. That's not fair to lead him on when you don't even know where you're going.
2007-03-11 17:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i think u shoudl break up with him and then be like i want u to no the realyl me...and then act liek ur self and ask him if he likes u still
2007-03-11 17:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you don't like him. If you don't like him, then it's only fair to break up, because you don't want to lead him on. Good luck!
2007-03-11 17:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by mjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should do the right thing and end it...its probably never going to work
2007-03-11 17:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by tiggerbabez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being fake and just be yourself
2007-03-11 17:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by G_CODE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋