i've been dating this guy since last summer. so i think she might have a hint that we're having sex. but i don't want to flat out tell her because i think she'll get mad and not let me date him anymore. but i neeed to get on BC. how do i do it? is there any way besides telling her i'm having sex?
2007-03-11 09:57:22 · 6 answers · asked by youmakemesmile :] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you have any skin problems? Doctors give girls birth control pills to help with that... or tell her your period is really bad and you want to lighten it up... if you use one of these excuses, tell her girls at your school recommended it.
Or, you can say your sick or something and go to the doctor. Go into his office by yourself and tell him you want on birth control. Doctors aren't allowed to tell your parents this (by law). This is what I did, and my doctor put the birth contol pills in a bag with some allergy pills, so I could just tell my mom it's all allergy pills. When I went back into the waiting room, I told her it was allergy pills and that was the end of it.
2007-03-11 10:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yea, properly i have tried hinting at it with my mom too, it gained't artwork and could more suitable likely in reality get her more suitable protecting and paranoid over you. Which i could assume you actually do not desire! at the starting up is there a guy you wanna have sex with or something? do not trouble, i do not decide. i'm 15, been going out with an identical guy for 16 months and that i knew more suitable positive then my mom how "waiting i became" after I did make certain to have sex the first time and that i'm nonetheless effective, i did not die or something, lol. yet i will inform you this, sex is truly over rated. the films make it look actually 10 cases more suitable severe then it truly is. yet in case you want birth control, get spermicidal condoms. Their ordinary to get and inexpensive and they artwork. [apparently the pill has only as a lot threat as a classic condom, so particularly going spermicidal identity prolly your perfect wager now to not coach you do not desire parent permission or something] =] reliable luck w/ that + be threat-free
2016-12-01 20:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Remember, birth control doesn't keep you from getting STD's. I sence you are around 15-16 years old, therefore, your mother should know that kids these days are having sex......whether us parents like it or not. She may welcome the idea that you want to be responsible, and take you to her OBGYN. Don't be afraid of your mother, of all people......she should be the one you trust the most. Be up front and honest with her, don't be sneaky. Now, I'd like to give you the advise that I first thought of.........don't have sex!! Wait!! But....I know you'll do it anyway. Just be careful hun. Take care, and be sure to talk to your mom.
2007-03-11 10:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't lie to your mom. Tell her the truth.
2007-03-11 10:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no other way to do it than to just tell her. She's your mom, so she should understand.
2007-03-11 10:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you want bigger boobs. or you want a lighter period
2007-03-11 10:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Paul H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋