this girl goes to the same church i do, she and i were cool just 2 weeks ago, all of a sudden she stopped talking to me,i have asked her why and she gives me no answer. by the way , we have already gone out on group dates...we have had our laughs and small talks while on em but now shes quiet and doesnt even talk to me. idunno , do you think she might like me? got annoyed with me and she doesnt wanna even see me ? i mean i have her as a friend on myspace and she has me as a top friend and well even through this time that we havent talked she still has me as a top friend and infact just today i checked and she moved me up one more space and yes i know its only myspace but we know each other and see each other every week... so whats the deal with this girl , she moves me up but doesnt wanna talk to me? like i said, i have asked her if idid something wrong and she doesnt give me an answer. what do i do or say ..... or what do you girls think. any advice would be appreciate it.
2007-03-11 09:51:36 · 7 answers · asked by Cj 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am baffled, too. But just in case she likes you, is fine in group situations but gets shy one-on-one (as opposed to wanting nothing more to do with you), ask her to do something with you that won't be too much pressure communication-wise (like a movie or an activity that will keep you busy). If she doesn't want to do that, then maybe you should tell he that you like her but that if she won't meet you halfway, you will have to assume that she'd rather you left her alone. And ask her straight out if that's what she'd prefer.
Best of luck to you!
2007-03-11 10:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Abigail 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she has some motives or something. She made that decision to not talk to you as much for a reason. But it could be anything. Hard to get? Or maybe just annoyed? Who knows but I would definitely ask her because I think she likes you. But really can't know anything until you get an answer from her. Thats why honesty is the best policy. It keeps confusion away lol.
2007-03-11 16:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this girl is trying to decide to be a "true'' christain and not be like the other people which she thinks is wild, So .even through she likes you she doesnt want you to get any ideas about you getting a little closer to her . Her defence is to keep you out of her emotional "space".My advice is to stop wanting an explanation all of the time and just enjoy her company.If she continue not to give into your charms just come out and say whats on your mind .
2007-03-11 17:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by charm s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be alot of reason. She probably really do like you but value the friendship more. She probably feels that if the relationship goes to the next level and ends - she'll loose a good friend. JMO
Maybe she doesn't want to risk loosing a good friend.
2007-03-11 16:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you. she may think you like someone else in the group. i would send a friendly email saying whenever you are ready to talk i am here or something to that effect. sounds like she is young and doesnt know how to deal with her feelings. good luck
2007-03-11 17:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by peachez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try talking to her through her best friend. Sometimes you can get a few tid-bits from someone who is close.
2007-03-11 17:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by NayNow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she doesnt know a good way to tell you that she doesnt like you or wants to break up with you so she just ignores u
2007-03-11 16:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋