By different, I mean expectations. Like will a high shcool girl look for the guy with the great personality or a guy who is popular and have a great body?
I just think that the advice I am getting from here isn't to practical in high school because I feel girls have different mindsets then. They will be affected by their peers etc.
2007-03-11 09:46:34 · 15 answers · asked by gamer31924 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know this for a fact, because I'm a guy, but i think for the most part girls are much more mature in knowing what they want out of a guy after they've graduated... A lot of girls in high school only seem to care about having good time right now (meaning they don't plan on being with their high school bf's for the rest of their lives). I think for the most part in high school girls just look for common interests and someone they can hang out with, whereas afterwards, they look for someone they can picture themselves being with for ever.
2007-03-18 17:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i did not expect anything different from the men i dated in high school and the men i dated in college. I always looked for a great personality, funny, likes the outdoors, stuff like that. And even in high school i wanted a guy that could take care of his self, car, job, a future. And i dont care what people say looks are on the bottom of the must need meter for a relationship, i mean lets see a hot *** guy that treats you like crap or a good guy, not so hot but respects you...easy answer. You have to be attracted to guy or girl dont get me wrong, but you can not expect a airbushed perfect 10 in the real world. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, living together for 1, now he is no model, plays video games all the time, however his personlity makes him more then hot to me
2007-03-11 09:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by jessica d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
High School girls are very different from Post-college girls. There are some very valid reasons why too. First off high school is a very different environment from the real world so the actions people take in high school usually have more to do with their group of friends than it does themselves. You see for most people college isn't just a time in your life to party and have a great time. Although it is a great time it's also a time to find yourself and learn about who you are as a person (away from your high school friends). So post-college girls know who they are and are secure with themselves and their beliefs. The other main difference is that most high school girls are just looking to have a good time while most post-college girls are looking for meaningful relationships that have potential of becoming a marriage. High school students are too young to be thinking of marriage.
2007-03-19 04:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you date, the more you know what you are or aren't looking for in your next relationship. This relates to men and women. As you grow older, you discover what you need and want out of life and from a partner. The mindset will be a little different but it all falls back on how you truly feel for the other person...You can be 50 for heaven's sake, and get that school girl crush feeling...live and learn...
2007-03-19 04:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right for the most part. a WOMAN out of college will want you for your personality and would most likely be more mature. they also would expect you to have your act together.
High school GIRLS are a little superficial at this part in their life, and are seeking to be accepted, by everyone. They do things cause their friends do, they want to date the popular guy so they'll be popular. but if you noticed I caped the Woman and Girl because there's a huge difference. Trust me, I'm a woman.
2007-03-19 08:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by brandyswilkes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeap high sch and post college girls are different but they willl all look for a guy with a great body (common Interest) the difference is with expectation and interests plus the level of maturity and the way one views life.
2007-03-18 21:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by Highbury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in my last year of high school. I guess peer pressure is everywhere from cutting to smoking to drinking to relationships for teenagers. Girls are easily persuaded by others' opinions when they do not like the guy enough. And to answer your question, the mentality of high school girls and post-college girls are different because people all grow up, they all learn from their past, etc.
2007-03-11 09:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by carrina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
High school girls usually date to impress friends and fit in. He's gotta be a looker and show consideration and shower her with gifts so she can show everyone she's loved. A post college girl is looking for a mate forever, one to be a provider, father, best friend. She compares potential incomes rather than points on a score board.
2007-03-18 12:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by lindalousmile 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls in highschool are petty selfish and prude they are after one thing the best lookin guy no matter what but as they get older they get the idea and go for guys with a personality not a new girl every week or a six pack
2007-03-19 05:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by sam_freudiger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
Are the trees all alike? no they are not so you cannot judge all the girls from a bunch. Girls are not alike so you cannot compare high school girls to post-college girls, it depends on the mentality of each girl individually.
2007-03-19 00:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋