Me and my girlfriend met when we were fifteen and immidiatly fell for eachother. She had a boyfriend at the time and broke up with him to be with me. We are now 17 and still together. We've almost broken up before, but always come back to eachother. We were eachothers firsts for everything, and the spark that was there when we first met is still there. I love her with all my heart and she loves me. Is it possible that we'll stay together? or are the odds against us.
2007-03-11 09:43:39 · 14 answers · asked by Hurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
her and her ex broke up because he was a jerk. He tried to kiss another girl. He never made time for her and she just got tired. And i came along just as the relationship was ending and treated her the way a girl should be. The hole sex with other people thing won't happen because she wants to save it untill marrage and even if she does do it with me shes not a whore. Shes very conservitive and either wants to save it untill marrage or with a guy shes with for atleast 2+ years. And im fine with waiting for her =). She views doing things with a guy as serious and would not do it out of curiousity, but instead if she loved the guy and was going to be with him for awhile.
2007-03-12 07:55:56 · update #1
Of course it's possible for you guys to stay together, as long as you both love each other forever. But it's also just as possible for you guys to break up. You never know, so just live life to its fullest. Live like you've never been hurt.
2007-03-11 09:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the odds aren't against you, but you two are each others firsts for a lot of stuff. I'm a bit confused though, because you two are together, and you never mentioned why you two had broken up before. about the only thing that would break you two up permanently is curiosity about what it is like to be in other relationships, or to have some experience outside of the relationship. that would keep you two apart, particularly so if the other never explored that option and the one did. what happened with her and her first boyfriend?
2007-03-11 09:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a chemical reaction in your body caused by a certain hormone that your body develops a tolerance to after 3-5yrs. that said a friend of mine is 23 and met his girl when when they were 16. the odds are against you if let them. just be sure that you have something besides love in the next year or so. that's why most couples that have been together for a while tend to see each other as best friends.
2007-03-11 09:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by FengHuaXueYue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible but highly unlikely. Getting together so young you will both come to a stage where you want to experience things like sex with someone else and its the beginning of the end from there.
Also, people grow apart, the kind of girl I would have been crazy about at 15 would not interest me now that I'm older.
2007-03-11 09:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A courting is artwork. there'll be surprising ups, and complicated downs. that's achieveable to stay honest, and to be happy which you probably did, regardless of the undeniable fact that it won't constantly be ordinary and now and back it won't sense pleasurable. we live in a international that's passionate approximately instant gratification, that's purely no longer the way the international works. Love would not stay sparkling constantly, and at last will become quite some artwork. basically, you heavily isn't swept off your ft daily, and that isn't be the element besides.
2016-10-18 03:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think that your bond with each other would be very great. why not? if a person can bond to a parent, cousin, sibling, child, etc. why not a partner? yeah, just as in any relationship, there will be times of trouble...thats just how life is. you cant alleviate a lot of problems by working together to avoid them instead of make them too uno. the more time you spend with someone, good times, the better the bond you see and far more likely to stay together. peace
2007-03-11 09:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes !
My parents started dating when my mom was 15 and my dad was 18. They got married, and have been together since; 31 years this April.
So yes, it's very possible for you 2 to stay together. As time goes on, you'll have to work at it constantly, but it'll be worth it!
Good luck. =)
2007-03-13 12:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by SweetMahogany 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people stay together their entire lives, and if you are truly soul mates you will. My grandparents have been married well over 50 years, my parents over 20. At my school, there's a couple that's been dating for like 5 years now. It's insane :) I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-03-11 09:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by glsbnewt21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what odds???????? you love each other and are happy together.. so what odds are you talking about ... a few arguments are necessary for a healthy relationship anyway.
2007-03-11 09:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sue Ann Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With mutual love and respect you can stay together forever- my husband and I have.
2007-03-11 09:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by ra63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋