About six months ago, I went out with this guy for a couple of months. We instantly had a connection and started spending all of our time together and even said we loved one another. I felt a connection with him that I haven't felt with anyone in a long time. I think I got scared though, because I started acting a little needy...like I needed him to reassure me all the time. And then he started pulling away and I broke up with him. I was basically trying to get him to fight for me, but it backfired! So then I took it back and let him know I still wanted to be with him...but I could tell he no longer wanted to be with me. But he never broke up with me...he just stopped calling a few weeks after everything happened. This all happened about six months ago. And now he's back in my life again...and we both agree that we jumped in way too quickly last time. And this time we're going to take it slow and not have sex for a long time. Until we're sure...
2007-03-11 09:24:07 · 8 answers · asked by magnolia3246 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm just concerned that if I let him back in again, he'll pull another disappearing act and hurt me all over again. I know he didn't cheat on me or anything, but I guess I'm not sure what his intentions are.
2007-03-11 09:25:45 · update #1
just make sure you know what your intentions are because you are being confused & will never understand him or you again to stay with others one. so good day luck.
2007-03-11 09:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lick_it_hard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's worth giving it another shot, but definitely take it slow. If he really loves you, you won't have to ask for reassurance because you'll recognize it in his actions and his words. However, if he pulls away from you again, he's probably not ready for a commitment and there's no point in trying to force him. I wish you the best of luck!
2007-03-11 09:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie_FL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you go abode connect up along with her and spot what occurs possibly the spark will return and each little thing will seem nice, possibly issues went slightly downhill for the reason which you prevented her, especially circumstances distance keeps you busy to the element you do no longer think of approximately them all the time so possibly spending the time at the same time will help If although you meet her and only see her extra as a pal now enable her be attentive to that good success i wish this works out for you the two way
2016-11-24 20:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u shud tell him that u are scared if he hurts u nd tell him the only reason u were needy wuz cuz u were afraid of losin him and u didnt expect it to turn out like dat becuase hidin it frm him is gonna make u worry more since u have ur emotions bottled in. and i think u shud give da relationship another chance because the first didnt work out as well nd maybe da second might turn out better now dat u both understand each other.
2007-03-11 09:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sanita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing your lack of self confidence pushed him away in the first place. CALM DOWN!!! Life is what you make of it. Go out with him, take it 'real' slow, and time will tell. Don't go in expecting the world, be open minded and have fun (safe fun).
2007-03-11 09:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by sure 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if you two are doing fine without any advice! Stay with it, because you do have the ability to work together to think things out, and if it doesn't turn out to be true love, you will probably at least find true friendship.
2007-03-11 09:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what you do, you call him over to the living room and
ASK HIM if he still loves you, and make those twinkly/crying eyes you girls know how to do, it will make him say the truth.
2007-03-11 09:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by el_mex_vato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you make a pact not to play head games anymore?
2007-03-11 09:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋