I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and i just dont feel a click anymore. So what do i say when i break up with him?
2007-03-11 09:08:44 · 12 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say what you feel.
depending on what kind of person he is, like if he'll break down, be fine, or come after you, its all different.
but make it quick. "its like ripping of the bandaid"
how you feel, what went wrong, its not his fault, & no, going on a break wont help.
:) i hope that sorta helps..
2007-03-11 09:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by prove me wrong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can really hurt someone so you need to do it with as much sensitivity as you have. Go somewhere private with him and just tell him you feel the two of you don't click and nothing can be done to change that. Reassure him that he is not a bad guy and that you feel really bad about it, but you need to move on. Tell him you are really sorry and then leave.
After that, ignore him. It will only prolong his agony to stay in touch and answer his million questions of why,why, why. As long as you do your part with sensitivity, nothing else can be done.
2007-03-11 09:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by ocean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just told us. You just don't feel a 'click'. Hopefully he will understand. I told my ex-boyfriend that I just wanted to be friends and I didn't want a boyfriend right now and I listed the reasons why. I did it over email. It sounds like cowardice, but I was able to remember not to forget anything I wanted to say.
2007-03-11 09:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him things are not turning out like you expected. That you like him as a friend but just don't feel that love connection you once felt and that you think it would be a good idea if you each saw other people. Let him know you are trying to be honest cause you don't want to hurt his feelings and the longer you date the harder it will be on both of you. Good luck
2007-03-11 09:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly what you told us. You dont feel a "click" anymore, and dont want to be together... simple as that
2007-03-11 09:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exacly what you just told us. say that you like him but you just don't feel that click any more but you still want to be friends. tell him how nice he is but tell him it just won't work out as boyfriend girl friend
2007-03-11 09:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with him; he will be terribly hurt. Try to talk yourself into loving him.
2007-03-11 09:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell what you told us it is not working for you. Better to be honest, it might hurt his feelings, but if you don.t it might end up hurting you.
2007-03-11 09:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by drriyn12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure. but just make sure you do it nice and easy. just say lets be friends i guess. imean. hurtin people beacuse u dont like them any more is horrible.
2007-03-11 09:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by kieran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just straight up tell him why i want to break up.
2007-03-11 09:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by goth_dixon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋