What should i do :(( HELP!!! plzzzz?
my gf broke up with me after 8 months of being together it is now 2 in a half weeks of being broky up :( it really sucks and we were in love and planned a life together and everything we never fought and i always treated her nice and was really loyal to her, we have been through alot together and really care about each other she said she broke up becase she just dont feel the same about me but she still loves me and cares about me, somtimes i was to protective and would act more like her parents then her bf, i wish she would of just talked to me about it instead so i told her i am going to change and want her back and she said idk that she has made up her mind well she still talks to me and last night we talked for a while and i asked her if she was over me and she said not really and then i said ok and she said yup, then we talked for like 2 hours and before we hung up i said i love you and she said i love you to talk to you tomorrow goodnite..
2007-03-11 09:04:04 · 5 answers · asked by Brandon D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love her more than anything in this world and will change anything for her i really wish we could get back togethe what should i do will time bring us back together what will
2007-03-11 09:04:43 · update #1
I want to help you and to let you know that things happen for a reason. Maybe something good will come out of this. She might need time to think, and then find out how much she really loves you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and remember true love never dies. I think that what your experiencing is the norm and that this departing is normal as well, especially if you have been together so long.Relationships have ups and downs and are not perfect, if they were then it would be abnormal. There will always be problems in every relationship and two people have to work them out. Give her some time and she will come back to you if she is truly in love. Remember that things happen for a reason and just when the door closes a new one opens!
Be strong, be patient, and hang in there! You sound too nice for her to let go---- she'll be back!
2007-03-11 09:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by lorrina b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes girls break up not becasue of there own choice but also becasue of friends influencing them thats what happened to me they tried to get me to break up with my bf of a year adn five months its hard so tell her how lost you feel but dont come off so strong that you look like a stalker tell her that maybe you shouldnt be broken up but maybe just on a break but still together hanging out then time may bring you back together
2007-03-11 16:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lyzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just move on and respect her wishes. I know it hurts now but things will get better eventually.
2007-03-11 16:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best advice that I can give you, go back slowly into the relationship and don't be over protective and smother her, good luck.
2007-03-11 16:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe all the talk about the future scared her off. Maybe she does love you but isn't sure about forever. (yet)
don't rush it.
2007-03-11 16:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋