And should one stay silently committed, or should they let the person know they are waiting and not dating or getting to know anyone else?
2007-03-11 08:59:35 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im in the same situation. he says hes scared to be in a relationship w/ me b/c imtoo emotional, and that realtionships are hard work and soemtimes painful. says he wants to take it slow. meanwhile he hasnt committed himself to me, i have to him. a whole bunch of guys ask me out, i always turn them down because my heart is with him. i wonder if im dumb for this. i wonder how long i should wait...as far as letting him know. I dont think u can ever know whats the best thing to do, telling him might show him that he has this power over u and that ull be there whether he truly wants you or not. him not knowing might not take u as serious b/c u could be doing whatevr u want on the side. i think its up to you. whatever u think is best. as for me, i havent told him but i think he knows. i think the guy will know by ur actions.
2007-03-11 09:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Roma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there need to stay committed if the other is not committed?
Depends on how you define love and what you are hoping for in the relationship. That would be what I would discuss.
I'd ask for clarification on what the relationship is and go from there.
Does not love imply a commitment whether or not the one you love returns your affection?
Love at its very best is unconditional.
Your questions put a conditions on love.
I would say that it is best for that love to be shown widely without sexual commitment to anyone until such time as one finds a person that reciprocates the love with the same intensity it is given with the mind and heart.
Life is a banquet of knowing others. When I love a person, I will let that person know my honest feelings with my words and actions without conditions placed on reciprocation.
2007-03-11 09:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by geeketta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that entirely depends on ur character and what feels most comfortable for u. but i say it's better to stay uncommited and try to let the person u like know.
2007-03-11 09:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh, i don't know, i imagine i might want to attend see you later as I felt like it, you would possibly want to make your options up wether there is wish or no longer. in case you wanna keep attempting keep attempting, you've no longer something to lose correct? i might want to ask this individual although, to be immediately with you and inform you in the experience that they are going to ever go back your affections.
2016-10-17 11:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by pataki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay committed,but let them know how you feel. you don't want to wait envane for their love,believe me i know
2007-03-11 09:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by That Dude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends, if ur love is true then u'll be loyal to your love and that person whether anything happens, if ur love is great but tha person who u love is just impossible to reach or does not deserve your love then move on :)
2007-03-11 09:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely.
2007-03-11 09:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋