OK here is the deal. I met this guy online three years ago and we never planned to meet. We have dated for seven months... and I asked him two weeks ago if he was happy - and he said he isnt looking to date anyone else at the moment... and he said that if we met someone and their was a connection it would be stupid for us not to be open to it. I asked him if he was ok with me dating other people and he would nto answer me.
So he didnt call me last weekend at all - and talked ot me all during the week. Now - this weekend he did the same thing - hasnt called me at all.
I havent called him - I want to see what he dfoes or how important I am to him... he was married at 21 and divorced with two kids that dont live wiht him... he told me he has never dated a friend before and it is weird for him. He is 38 - I am 32 never married... and would like some form of reassurance from him to stay in the relationship. He did not end it with me - just hasnt called me - you think there is hope?
2007-03-11 08:57:42 · 4 answers · asked by jennifererin630 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
always have hope :)
2007-03-11 09:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are seeing a sample of what lif would be if you ever were comitted to each other
he seems to want to keep his options open and still keep you
it also seems from his actions that he isn't the commitment type or you're not the one for him , no matter how devoted you are to him it's not enough hence the suggestion that he wants to be open to others but still ignorin you for even suggesting that he meant you should date others too
if you want to waste time then wait for him, if you want commitment and a guy to settle down with then this is definitely not the guy for you and if he did he will give you a hard time
call him and wait for a really good excuse like being in the hospital or worse , not for i've been too busy working kind of excuse, then wait for the right time and discuss with him whether he wants to commit to a relationship with you or will give you a choice to see others as he has given himself that choice.
discuss it with a reasonable friend.
to answer your question i'm sorry but i don't think his actions show that there is hope for the two of you and it's not your fault some ppl are just not int commitment
2007-03-11 09:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by sweet tooth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go with your gut feelings. Maybe he didn't like it that you asked him about your dating other people.Try to find something to do to distract yourself if you don't want to call him. Fun with a friend or a long walk or a good book.Maybe he met someone and doesn't know what to say. Just give it a few more days and if you don't hear from him at all. Live your life, and he might come around or not.Good Luck.
2007-03-11 09:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by plaplant8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and then ask L8r...
there may be hope- wat if hes busy?
somethin? If u get way 2 impatient, its totally fine to call him!
2007-03-11 09:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋