I've been talking to this guy named Matt since like June. In January, he asked me out and I accepted. The night before our planned date, he called and told me that He had met someone else and cancelled our date.
Well, He's been texting again. He wants to get together sometime, but I'm just not sure if I should give him another chance or not.
He said that he'd call me on Thursday night at 9 and didn't...he apologized (in a text) and said that he'd call at 10:30 and didn't. Well, my friend took my phone and sent him a text telling him that he's pathetic for messing with me if he's not going to do what he says he will. He called 3 times Friday but never left a voice mail.
Last night he called and we talked for a while...then he called again this afternoon. He wants to hang out tonight. He said he's even willing to cancel basketball with his friends and drive for an hour to come see me at college.
Do you think he deserves another chance? Should I go ahead and start dating him?
2007-03-11 08:54:41 · 2 answers · asked by aimhoof04 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, so he does say he'll do things and doesn't do them...but he usually makes up for it later.
2007-03-11 09:03:08 · update #1
He has already established a pattern with you -- he tells you he will be somewhere, or call you, and he doesn't. And you have established a pattern, too... of allowing him to take advantage of you.
If that is the type of relationship you want, then sure, you should date him.... but you should expect the behavior to continue.
Pass on this one, and find someone who follows thru.
2007-03-11 09:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by kelannde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should give him one last chance, but if he keeps up doin the same thing dont bother with him. u deserve better.
2007-03-11 16:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mathew B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋