keep saying they are not interested in particular girl and/or they have a gf. my male friends love to cuddle with me when we watch tv, or take naps (NO sex, no kissing). why they like doing this even tho it's not sexual for them, right?
2007-03-11 08:51:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only reason that men are friends with a woman is because they are holding out the hope that they will get to have sex with them.
Now, women have lists in there head, they have a friends list and a lovers list. It is almost impossible for a guy to jump from the friend list to the lovers list, but some guys will hold out that hope longer than others. No matter what he says to your face, if you called him up and asked him to have sex with you tonight, he would say yes.
In answer to your question, when he cuddles up with you, he's doing this in the hopes that you'll become more and more comfortable with him, and that eventually it will become sexual. If you believe anything else, then you're in complete denial.
2007-03-12 02:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh he likes you trust that otherwise he would not spend so much time being with you. He may say that he's not interested but if he's cuddling and hugging all on you then trust me he's into he may not know how to tell you. He may be afraid that if he does tell you how he feels that you may not want to be his friend anymore.
What I would do is ask this guy these guys how they feel about you and if they could ever see themselves in a relationship with you. He may try to deny it but then ask him why he spends so much time with you if he's not interested.
2007-03-11 09:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My female friends cuddle with me but their taken and they i know i would never make move on them. I don't mind it cause I'm single but there's a line that can't be crossed when they are taken.
2007-03-11 09:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by Soul Survivor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of humanity longs to belong, cuddling makes people feel loved.
2007-03-11 08:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people dont like having srings attached. if they can cuddle without being put in an awkward position of having to state a relationship-- why not?
2007-03-11 08:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never in my life "cuddled" with a guy who didn't like me in a sexual way. That's totally weird.
2007-03-11 08:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes it's just the soft touch of someone from the opposite sex that gets a guy off, or yah what that first person said..no strings attached physical contact..
2007-03-11 08:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by m34tba11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because... Like before, guys don't make any sense and sometimes get confused about well, almost anything! They'll probably leave after hanging out with you and jerk off in the car or something. I seriously wouldn't doubt it... Good luck!
2007-03-11 18:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by Shakiki 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
this is normal...i do that ll the time when i was single with my friends bc its more comfertable...and at the same time it allows you to be safe and feel good knowing that you have someone in your arms and that you are not alone in life..i hope this makes sense..
2007-03-11 08:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
they're much friends with you. if you trust them that doesn't matter. however being touched by ppl gives more chance to start relationships.
2007-03-11 08:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Sally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋