2007-03-11 08:48:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very sad and depressed.
2007-03-11 08:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by callmecouture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm amazed at some of the question people post.. and even more so at some of the stupid answers. The problem to your question hun is it's not very detailed. IS this you you are asking about? why are things so bad? What happened? In a situation like this all I can do is is tell you a little about me. I did the same thing... I didn't get along with my Family... I had zero friends... I didn't go out.. and I had no other to love. My problem was Self Exile. I locked myself away for a various reasons... one the biggest was I didn't think people would like me cause of the way I look.. plus I had been betrayed by friends and a love intrest more then once.... I locked myself away... and burried myself in Online games like Everquest and WoW. I felt happy for awhile.. but the truth was I wasn't. I eventually.. with some help from someone who proved to be a true friend.. went back out into the world.. I learned friends who betray you were never friends.. and it's not the end of the world.. same about people you love. In short.. I learned to Enjoy life.
2007-03-11 08:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by Justin L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand the family thing...you have no control over that..but as far as friends and a girlfriend go that's up to you.(if it is you). I've wondered that alot myself..I feel very fortunate that I have a great family cause thats where it all starts. Someone who has nobody has alot more work to do than people like me. There's really no excuse for having nobody(especially in the now) unless you are tied to a pillar in the basement. Feeling sorry for themselves is not at all a solution...weather it is outwordly or inwordly...people can sense that and don't like the negativity that comes with it. So in my eyes there is no reason anyone should be alone unless they have chosen that themselves
2007-03-11 09:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by sass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With great difficulty. This can change by finding a girl, starting a family, and meeting her friends. Or not. Many great historic and creative people have been there and done that. Beethoven had few friends, was extremely lonely, yet he will be remembered for all time. Prokofiev (famous Russian composer) by and large disliked people, yet it didn't stop his feelings for love and his genius for invention, as evidenced in his musical scores. People play with the hand dealt them. Nobody gets through life without some pain, regret, loneliness, etc. Well, almost nobody.
2007-03-11 08:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to make your way. Teach yourself how to be a good friend and find things to do that you enjoy. Get a job meet people doing things. Look in the paper at what is happening in your town and choose something to do. One step at a time. Your alternative is to sit and do nothing and focus on all that you do not have and then nothing will change for you. You are the one who can improve your life and your happiness with it, you have to take some action.
2007-03-11 08:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by plaplant8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get out more! Join a volunteer organization and you should be able to make some friends. Don't let BS hold you back from living your life. If you are really depressed then you should seek professional help. Hope this helps!
2007-03-11 08:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by chunkysmom3502 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a very mundane life until that person decides s/he wants to change things... get some friends, have a social life, get a girl, find some hobbies, do stuff they like to do...
2007-03-11 08:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh where are they living in a cave? I cant believe someone would have nobody! I have the opposite problem i cant get rid of everyone they bother me day and night!
2007-03-11 08:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They spend a lot of time in here I think. Or other places like this where they can remain anonymous yet still have a little attention pais to their feelings and opinions.
2007-03-11 08:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by emmandal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local church every week, get to know the people there. In a years time, your life will be different.
2007-03-11 08:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by wonkyfella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people deal with that problem too. Most people are just as lonely and all they can do is hope but remember that you make up your own reality. It's partly how you see yourself and how you react to your own situations.
2007-03-11 08:53:35 · answer #11 · answered by Dollyrocker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋