ok so there is this guy that i had a crush on for a very long time and i think he use to like me too. But this year i discover that he like this girl, who about every guys i know like. But it just kills me when i see him talking to her. I mean i liked him for so long and i mean i never went out with him or anything. But it's just so sad. I want to tell him that i like him but i don't know how he would react.... So should i tell him i like him?
2007-03-11 08:46:15 · 7 answers · asked by Defiance_Chick 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should tell him that you like him.... life is about taking chances, if you take no chances you wont get answers...if he rejects you then you know its time to move on to someone else...plus it wont keep bothering you, sitting there and wondering what he thinks all of the time... the longer you take to ask him, the more likely it is he will be with someone else
2007-03-11 08:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by jim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you can't communicate with a person how can you have a relationship? It is very important to let a person know how you feel, even if it means that the answer might not be what you want to hear. Either way you will be about to concentrate on someone who maybe attracted to you. Remember it takes two. Any relationship is a 2 way street. "You can take a horse to the water but you can't make him drink." Be true to yourself first and let him know.
2007-03-11 15:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think you should say anything. You say you think he used to like you, perhaps he still does, as a friend. In my experience you can usually tell if someone fancies you and it appears he's interested in another girl and that's his choice. I think you should try to forget about him and get on with your life. Maybe then he'll start to notice you as someone other than just a friend but if not at least there will be no awkwardness and you will have managed to hold on to a good friend
2007-03-11 16:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him, and if he reacts in a bad way, that he isn't worth it. Just ignore him talking to that girl. Most guys will flirt with other girls, but maybe if he knows that you like him, it may be love. good luck :D
2007-03-11 15:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ υηнєαя†є∂ ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u ask me no such moves must be made by boys if u ask me but instead try to get close to him and if u r so determined ask him out but dont tell him that u like him just like that i dont find it right.. i wish u good luck whatever u do
2007-03-11 15:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by manosn1b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him! I mean why not? If you dont ask . . . whats gonna happen?
2007-03-11 15:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kiyoshi Shimizu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhmmm.... YES OF COURSE, if not then it'll be worse for u, if he rejects u then too bad, it happens :)
2007-03-11 15:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋