seems like all the women are too desperate for love which mkaes it easier for guys to take advantage.....and even when they know they're bf has done 'small' cheating (like lap dances stripb clubs) and they know they should dump them they don't......and they also know that most guys couldn't help themselves in front of a hot girl and they all wanna really be players anyway
& you never see a man saying o i'm so lonely, i want a gf, am i ever gonna find that one, i want someone to love me,...
& u probably don't belive me ladies ('oooo noo my baby luvs me he'd never cheat on me we looove eachother') but even a GUY asked here on yahoo if the human race would continue if girls weren't so gullible.......think about that now!
i don't wanna get hurt so i wanna not need a man and i'm already starting to have that girl feeling that i wanna be loved agggghhhh what do i do? save me women!
2007-03-11 08:42:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't suddenly become a strong person but it does get easier as you get older because you learn to deal with the facts of life better.
2007-03-18 09:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well It shows that woman think with their hearts and guys think with their darts! We have to be the better human and stay the way we are and only accept the ones that we feel have earned our respect! I know easier said than done. After being in a few bad relationships I finally found one that is great! He is still a guy and does dumb guy things but we have to remember that we the female are basically more mature than the guy that is just going to be an adolescent all his life.
2007-03-19 06:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many guys that want a relationship badly, but can't get hooked up, me included. My last girlfriend was too independent, and that made the relationship very difficult and no fun at all. Do not harden yourself or try to make yourself independent; most of the guys I know want a sweet, caring woman who is not rigid or cold, as most independent ones are. Just be yourself, and the right one will come along.
2007-03-18 20:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by ddc671mechanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are as you described, there are actually some REAL men out there.
Going to a Strip bar is Not cheating, have you ever been in a strip bar? I have, and it is not what you think.
You can be a strong independent woman, Love someone, just don't put all your "eggs" (so to speak) in His Basket.
If he does cheat, that is his problem, and then move on.
2007-03-19 04:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the right tracks...get that book called "the rules" very simple and easy to read...can't remember who wrote it. Love and understand yourself. Know what you like, funny, but true, make a list of what you want your husband to have or boyfriend to have... characteristics..
what he MUST have and what you can work with and what you will NOT tolerate...be choosy, always be happy in a true sense...never ever get desperate, take care of yourself, how you look, how you talk and walk because you want to attract the right person...and 99% of you follow those rules...you will ....enjoy...
Good luck.
2007-03-19 03:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, "emotionally strong" would mean that i am able to take the risk, find a man that my heart desire, and fall in love. But when things don't work out the way it should, I should learn to let go and move on.
When people don't want to fall in love because they don't want to get hurt, I think that's more like feeling insecure, and not emotionally strong. Hope this help!!
2007-03-19 07:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Celia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are not too desperate you are just talking about yourself but if you are then it is a call for help. You do not have enough faith in you, in otherwords you are not satisfied in who you are so you're looking for someone that can make you feel better or worthy. Take a vacation from guys and try to spoil yourself, you wont become emotionally strong untill you discover your innerself and become comfortable with it.
2007-03-18 23:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did while i replaced into in love. they say love hurts, in spite of the indisputable fact that it quite would not injury except your loved ones member is suffering or would not return your thoughts. merely be careful of this new self belief and don't enable it lead you off track with different women human beings in a while, while the sentiments of love start to relax. numerous individuals get a touch strengthen in shallowness and recover from excited with it, so be guarded in comparison or you would be able to lose her (and your self belief together with her).
2016-10-01 22:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.. I dont think this just a blk men thing.. men of all nationalities do this! So pls dont generalize. ;)
2007-03-19 07:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Ichigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak your mind and stand your ground...
2007-03-11 13:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by DemoDicky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋