Alright, My girlfriend broke up with me a month ago by text messege. I know it was kind of weird but thats how it happened. She told that she saw me more as a friend than her boyfriend. She also said that i was too nice. Shes in my mind everday so i still have feelings for her. Should I keep going affter her?........keep in mind were still friends and still talk to each other.
2007-03-11 08:37:02 · 20 answers · asked by Lewis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't keep going after her. you will have an awful hard time getting over her if you keep thinking there is a chance when she has already told you there isn't. it might be good to not hang out with for for a little while too, will help to move on.
2007-03-11 08:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard for you but you must understand that these feelings of sadness will come and go.After all, it's only been a month. Think about it, she broke up with you through a text message! She didn't even have the guts and/or respect to tell you to your face. Don't go after her. She isn't worth your time. To say that she saw you more as a friend than a boyfriend says a lot. She's not interested but remember that you could do way better than her. Maybe it's better if you don't talk to her for a while. If you continue to talk to her and see her, it's going to make you even more sad and it will also give you false hope. Take times to think about things. You're only making things worse for you if you keep hanging out with her.
2007-03-11 15:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by Dollyrocker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...How do I put this the easiest way I can? I'm struggling with the same thing, accept she's dating someone and she said she still likes me, out of the blue! I still have feelings for her and think about her a lot! But, I'm beginning to move on, God willing, and having to make some difficult decisions in the process! You should do whatever it takes to get over her! Widen your views a bit and start hanging around other people! Don't hold on to something that just can't be, or you will be miserable! Trust me...
2007-03-11 15:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old saying goes "If you love her, let her go. If she doesn't come back it was never meant to be." When I was younger I thought that phrase was BS. That was until my wife gave me that same line back when we were dating.
Sometimes people don't know what they want. Especially if what they want is standing in front of them. It's the strangest thing. It's like hiding something out in the open. Anyways, absence in what makes the heart grow fonder at times. Give her the space. She knows you still care, I'm sure of that because you seem honest in your question. Time, it's all just a waiting game now. Play it cool and good luck, I hope you get the girl.
2007-03-11 15:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with someone by text is nuts... but.. it might of been an easy way for her. You two are still friends which is good.. but not if you still want her, and she see's you as just a friend. Have you asked her, why she see's you as just a friend? If there would be any chance of you's getting back together.. if she says no.. then drop it.. and you will have to let it go... and hopefully still be able to keep her as a friend:)
take care
2007-03-11 15:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by kAtTs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not uncommon for girls that dont like nice guys to brake up with you through text message. They are to guilty to tell you to your face. But you should move on. She is not looking for a guy to be good to her. Let her experience in life what i had to deal with then she will appreciate the kindness of a guy who is gentle and sweet to even go to this extream to win her back. Your a good catch. Dont let it get you down. just move on.
2007-03-11 15:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by valerie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but the best thing to do here is just to back off, give her some space. She's told you how she feels and that was brave of her. Just stay friends with her and maybe someday she will be able to see you as more.
Best of Luck!
2007-03-11 15:40:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just move on and give he a lil space. maybe even not talke to her for a while just to help u get over her. get out meet some people. who the heck breaks up by text message anyway.
2007-03-11 15:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg -hun, she dumped you in a text message - obviously even as a friend she cares for you that little. sometimes it's best to let the past go. sounds like she's right - you are too nice for her because I would have told her about herself after dumping me in a TEXT MESSAGE!!! . . . my goodness if she's a friend i wonder how your enemies treat you. . .
she's childish -leave her be
good luck, lis
2007-03-11 15:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by latinalisette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frm past expierence all i can say is just to stay close to her as a friend dont push her into sumthin she may not want i mean their are other gurls and i can tell u r most likely in love with her but im guessing she has probably been hurt be4 and is scared of commitment...all i can tell u too stay close and c wat happens being a real friend to her is gonna make it all worth while
2007-03-11 15:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by *me* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋