Why is it that black man always want the skinny women, but white man want thick ang big women? Why do black men down talk black women and why do they complain that cant find a good sista, when she right there in front of their face? Just curious!!!
2007-03-11 08:34:29 · 42 answers · asked by Lovely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to much mtv
2007-03-11 08:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by TEBOE7 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You've met all the black men in the world? Was this event catered? Did you get a t-shirt? :p
Look. Everyone is different. And as a big girl myself, who's been asked out by many different black men, I can tell you that your generalization is a false one. Perhaps where you live, the standard of beauty is that girls should be small. It's not like that everywhere.
Just worry about being the best you that you can be, no matter what size that is. Big is beautiful to many men of all colors. And surround yourself with people who treat you with respect and kindness. If someone talks down to you, that doesn't mean you're not a good enough woman, it means he's not a good enough man. Don't blame the entire race for the shortcomings of some of its members, hon.
Perhaps you need to start meeting a different class of men. Men that are educated, have a good work ethic, have powerful women around them. If you change where you're looking, I bet you'll change what you find.
Good luck.
2007-03-19 08:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by Vix 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey sista girl! I wish I knew why the brotha's like the little tiny ones, just a matter of preference I guess. Just like I prefer a more dark toned blk man (my preference) . And the white guys liking thick woman, I can't speak on because I have never been with a white guy or asked a white guy his preference. As far as blk men talking down to us, maybe becuz some of us (sista's talk down to them) possibly??? I mean some of us do not give blk men their props (well the ones that are trying to do right) I could go on and on...But nonetheless, thanks for your question. Its just a question and some of the reply's were just rude and mean your not dumb!! its just the way YOU feel and your observations.... doesn't mean your right or wrong for asking!! Stay strong.....!! good luck. :-)
2007-03-14 06:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Cheetara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my understanding it was the other way around. Black men like the women who are thick and big, especially where it matters. I've seen on tv shows white women saying that they date black men because they white guys see them as being fat when they have a full figure.
2007-03-19 08:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by mrkramer5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, your stereotyping. Black Men can't find a good sista because most of ya'll ask to much of your man. That's why we've begun to look into other woman whom are independent and treat a Man with respect. They know who the boss is. Black woman want to be the boss.
2007-03-19 08:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by BRANDON B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"black man always want the skinny women, but white man want thick ang big women"
since when has this been true?
2007-03-18 09:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by PLD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do? I wasn't aware of that one. I know what black men often times say out their mouth is not what they end up with, just what they have been taught to say they prefer or idealize. Why do you think most times when a brother does get with a gorgeous super model type, he ends up cheating on her anyway with a women that's fat, ugly or just scandalous because their gorgeous wives or girlfriends are usually very wack in bed. If a particular brother can't recognize a good thing in front of him then he's the dummy and its his loss. One brothers loss is anothers gain.
2007-03-19 06:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
huh? I thought my b/f was the only black guy who loved white super skinny women... maybe you know him. jk
Nah, but other then that I have never ever in my lifetime met a black man who wanted a skinny white women. Really... all of my white guy friends LOVE the bones stickin out of their women.
So honey I just think its the people you know... not the group of people as a whole.
2007-03-12 12:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny you should ask because a close friend of mine and I just had a talk similar to this one. My friend happens to be a black male while I am a white female. He was comparing the women of different races and how they act in different situations. The way he put it was that when upset white women are calmer while black women get in your face and Asian women start talking a language you've never heard while Hispanic women get in your face and talk really loud Spanish when they're upset. So I'm guessing that if they're going for white women they may be looking for a calmer more relaxed relationship?
2007-03-19 04:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your just hanging with the wrong crowd my sista!!! There are more black men out there that are NOT that way than are!!! Find some new people to run and hang with so your not so frustrated and obviously hurt!! Good luck!!!
2007-03-11 08:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by dodlydink 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lovely my dear, black men like white men, have their own personal preference. Keep positive sister, there are a lot of 'fish' in the sea of life to choose from. You just have not found your 'prince' yet. Good luck!
2007-03-11 08:44:30 · answer #11 · answered by WVJaybird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋