she is the first girl i ever met, but she has a past consisting of many guys, how should i get over it, i feel jealeous, i feel betrayed (she hided her past untill she became pregnant), i feel on missing out in life, i feel that she lied adn all this feelings, what should i do how to get over it, should i lave her or accept her for sake of our kid.
2007-03-11 08:15:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your cracking up over it. Let the past be the past and forget what happened before you two met. You will never get along otherwise.
2007-03-11 08:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one, I don't have a solution.
BUT leaving her for your own feelings would be betraying your kid. I think you should really talk to her and find out how long ago all this was, why she did that, etc. It would really bother me too.
Leaving her without at least talking about it would be stupid. One thing I would assess is if those guys where the guys she had fun with and you are the rich guy she wants to take care of her kids. THAT would be something even worse IMO.
2007-03-11 15:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jamal J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think you should be worried about what she did in the past. The only thing that matters is she's yours now. My husband had been with a few girls before we ever started dating and he is the only guy I have ever been with, but it never bothered me because those girls were before me. Everyone has a past and they can't change it even if they want to. But you love her and she wouldn't be who she is today if it wasn't for the things she has done or been through in her life.
2007-03-11 15:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cool to feel this way but you need to let it go. That's not the question you should be asking. Do you love her? Do you want to raise a family together? Are you going to marry her? That's it. That's the end of the line to your pasts. But it is the beginning of something wonderful if that is truly what you want today. Good luck.
2007-03-11 15:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by Another Garcia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its in the past let it go. Everyone has a past. Maybe theres some of it shes not proud of maybe some of it still hurts her. Maybe its partly your fault for not asking her about it. Did you tell her about everything in your past? Seriously whats the point of being jealous about something that happened a long time ago? Let it go and grow up.
2007-03-11 15:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Steveo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋