Okay, so I live with my aunt and uncle, and I dislike my mom and dad, but sometimes i get depressed here to, and i think its for stupid reasons like chores and getting yelled at, are these reasons to be depressed, or do i just overeact?
2007-03-11 08:10:29 · 9 answers · asked by LastFallenTear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
u just overreact
2007-03-11 08:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Fashionista 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you get depressed because in your heart you wish you had a mom and dad you could like and have in your life and you resent your aunt and uncle because they are not your parents and get angry because you feel they have no right telling you what to do. think about it. if this rings close to the truth, try to be thankful, instead of angry. you have a aunt and uncle who want to raise you to be the best you can. we all get yelled at and told what to do when we are young it goes with the territory. but, ultimately, it makes us grow up and be responsible adults. sure we all over react when growing up but don't make it make you be depressed. start doing things that make you happy, but also do your chores and let your aunt and uncle realize that you are happy that they are helping you to grow up. lighten up on yourself, enjoy life and try not to worry so much. good luck to you. :)
2007-03-11 15:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, no one likes to be yelled at, but we all have chores in life ... even a mother cat has to wash up her kittens, so it isn't all that bad ... try to be sweet to yourself, and thank heavens you can stay with your relatives .... it is not a question of over-reacting, it is a question of knowing how to deal with it day to day .... and sometimes we need to develop the skills to do so ... try to remember that your chores are not given as punishment, but just so you have a little something to do that helps you take care of yourself
peace & love
2007-03-11 15:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing "chores" is something you will be doing for the rest of your life. It is best to just accept it and not fight it. Try to learn the best way to do things so you can do them that way when you are on your own some day. I think you are overreacting. You are lucky to have and aunt and uncle who care for you and support you.
2007-03-11 15:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, sometimes thing just get to be too much... being depressed all the time can't be health and it is prolly for more than chores and getting yelled at... sometimes you can overeact...I know how ya feel becuz I do the samething sometimes.... but depression can happen anywhere just not one place...
2007-03-11 15:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by Corie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i feel that way too you just have to find a place you can go to free yourself or in your mind that can just take you away from it all,but it might be a little of both overeacting and depression at the same time just building up
2007-03-12 15:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by SEXY32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you're a teen, then this is quite normal....just the horomones. Your aunt and uncle love you because they are letting you live with them. Remember that when you are fighting with your guardian or parent. They let you live with them and they take care of you.
2007-03-11 15:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if they're good reasons or not, you get depressed over them and you can't exactly change it... maybe you need to see a professional about this, it could really help you out.
2007-03-11 15:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its hard enough not literally having a mom and dad. but i think its pretty normal--u feel like u need more control. Try telling them u need a break every now and then.
2007-03-11 15:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by Kaliana A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋