I have a bf and everytime he 'likes' someone else I get conscious. I know I can't change the real me but is there something i can do so that at least he'll appreciate me more?
2007-03-11 08:04:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to someone who u trust
2007-03-11 08:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Stunt M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hunny. You are in the wrong relation ship. if every time he likes some one eles you feel insacure. He should not like any one else. You in some way should be his world. I call this toxic relationships. If he is bringing you down then get out. You can not change you either he likes you or not. You need to think to your self every day I am a remarkable woman, I am beautiful, I am smart, I am fun and the right man will come along some day. You should be in no rush. That man is out there it is just not the one you are with. The relationship you are in now you will be come a victim of your own statistic. Control your own destiny.
2007-03-11 15:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by savannah_smiles25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self esteem is achieved through accomplishment. Find something you enjoy and go after it! When you have a life you want to share, you won't worry about what he's up to. Don't turn yourself into a doormat for anyone. He'll just get bored with you.
2007-03-11 15:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit kissing his *** and trying to be what you think he wants. Be what you want to be and demand that any may accept you as you are. You sound like you have a confidence problem. It all starts with the chick in the mirror. Look at her and tell her you respect her and you love her. Accept nothing less from anyone else.
2007-03-11 15:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, there is nothing you can do to make him care more about you. I know that is hard to take but you cannot make anyone happy but yourself and the sooner you realize that the better. Look for your good qualities and show them off. That will make you feel more confident in yourself. And confidence is sexy on a person.
2007-03-11 15:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by VMSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love yourself more and stop concentrating on him - men love chasing women and the more you get desperate, the more they hurt your feelings.
2007-03-11 15:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurlie.. you can't change who you are. .and you shouldn't have to for any guy.. .and you shouldn't worry about them... I mean sure he can like them but you have him right... and if he reallly likes you he would appreciate you more anyway.. so don't go trying to change for improve yourself for anyone.. you are who you are...
2007-03-11 15:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Corie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself, after that everything will fall into place.
2007-03-11 15:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doin sumthing he likes & make it a date. but in YOUR version. & to keep up ur self esteem, jus stay confident since he IS ur bf. u can do this!!
YEAHH!!! XD
like tht! keep ur head in & make sure u DN'T give up!! ;D
2007-03-11 15:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a chasity belt, lol
2007-03-11 15:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by [192882] 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋