Ok when I was 13 (20 now) this kid who worked at the local hangout had sent girls to talk to me, I was too young for him to talk to (he was 16) but he was interested in me, I wasn't interested in him. Then we met again when I was 15/16, turns out he hangs out with my bestfriends brother, and I formed a huge crush on him. Now recently this past year we hooked up at a few parties, and had a great time chillen. Now he barley talks to me when he sees me, and acts like a jerk. What could it be?
2007-03-11 08:00:58 · 14 answers · asked by Like Nothing Else 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you mean by hooking up? Did you have sex with this man? If so, that's all he was looking for from you and he has moved on. If you mean you made out, same answer. He played around and has moved on or he already has someone in his life romantically and has no further need for you. If you mean you were just talking and flirting, maybe he decided in the conversation that you're just not for him. Let him go. Move on and look for someone who finds you fascinating not just a couple of times, but every time. Don't wait for him to grow up. It sounds like you have passed him already in maturity.
2007-03-11 08:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight. Back in High School there was a guy at the hangout who likes you and you didn't like him. But, now your hooked up with your bestfriends brother. The Same guy from the hangout is acting like a jerk. O, he's jealous and mad. He needs to learn to let you go and move on. If he like you, he respect you and move on.
Or is it you and the same guy from the hangout together now and he's acting like a jerk? He mighta found out that you like your best friends brother and mad. I say he's gotta let you go if he's a jerk or break up. Go to http://www.lovingyou.com/ if you need more help.
2007-03-11 08:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you 2 have grown up, and life is different now. And what was then is different now.
Maybe he liked you more then you knew. and the years ,that have passed, has made him see you from a different point of view.
Or maybe he's just not interested in, you, because , you have changed like he did.
Maybe he sees you as an adult now, and does not know what to say to you.
Then again, he could still want to have sex with you, but is afraid, tot ask. Or afraid that someone else may have, and he might not live up to their standards. If you know what i mean.
2007-03-11 08:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey JC - you forgot to get your name under your picture - trying some cloning?? that's not the way its done, mate.!
see the only pic eithout a name at the bottom people?? its JC, the religious abusive freak on the prowl again - sort of like hiding behind ones finger.
Regarding your troubles lassie, I sympathize with you..all of the naswer from 'people' seem accurate - take care of taking notive though from people who try and deliver without a name!!
2007-03-11 08:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by QuoVadis? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be because you didn't like him back when you were 13, he got mad so later after you built up a crush for him , he turns you down and make you feel like crap the way he may have. Of course you could always talk to him.
2007-03-11 08:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by Classic Rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 12:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First saw you when he was 16? He probably had the mind of a teenage guy wanting one thing. He got what it was, so he's done with you.
2007-03-11 08:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by Laureneliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find a new crush. Obviously he doesn't think things are going to work out.
2007-03-11 08:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by puppyraiser8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just doesnt' feel the same way anymore.. maybe he has just matured just a lil .. I don't know.. .guys change their mind so much .. lol
2007-03-11 08:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Corie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said, he's being a jerk, Forget him!
2007-03-11 08:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by Lyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋