I want to have a boyfriend sometimes, and sometimes I dont, what do I do?!
2007-03-11 07:58:40 · 26 answers · asked by Jessica** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about it sweetie!
You're young and have your whole life to worry about boys. Right now, enjoy having friends and going out places without having to worry about what your boyfriend wants to do, or where he wants to go, or getting into a fight with him.
It's totally fine not to have a boyfriend, and sometimes, even a good thing! When you aren't aggressively looking for love, it makes you more desirable to the guys! Guys ALWAYS want what's hard to get.
But again, you have your whole life ahead of you, and plenty of time to worry about boyfriends. They can be more of a pain sometimes, and not worth the butterflies in your stomach.
I was 12 when I had my first boyfriend, and as I remember it -- he was stupid. I didn't get anything cool out of the relationship, and instead whenever I see him nowadays, things are really weird and uncomfortable.
I met my fiance when I was 17, and kind of played hard to get. I fell head over heels in love with him, and he asked me to marry him last year.
:)
2007-03-11 08:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by RaginCajun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't weird that you don't have have a boyfriend but your friends do. Your 11 have fun being singel go hang out people that you don't have to bring your boy or anything. Don't be like your friends that are up their boyfriends butts all the time. Don't be put in all the drama when it comes to a boy. Have fun. Don't do anything stupid. Look at me I'm only 4 years older than you and I love being single.
2007-03-11 08:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u want them for? U'r just 11 right? I'm almost 15 and I don't have a boyfriend. Just hang out with friends, males and females both, be sociable and friendly with everybody and that would be perfectly ok. Don't mess up with bf so soon. U can have a lot of fun without them. Kiss.
2007-03-11 08:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine that you don't. I mean my first /only boyfriend i had is when i was 13 (now im 14) adn we have been together for 10 months. Don't find a boyfriend just cause everyoen else has one, you have to decide if you like him or just like the thought of having a boyfriend. If its just the thought, hold off because savign yourself for the right guy and not dating just because is better. Trust me i know i was asked out in 6th grade but i turned them all donw until my 8th grade year whn i found the guy i really like adn means a lot to me.
2007-03-11 08:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by music fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush it. I'm a 13 year old guy and have never had a real girlfriend, and i'm just fine. Wait a little while, trust me, the later you start dating, the better!!! When you are as young as we are, we really don't make the best decissions. One of my best friends has been dating since second grade, and she has had TONS of perverts after her and now she just is like addicted to having a boyfriend. She can't go a week without changing.
2007-03-11 08:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Not at all! I got my first kiss at 14 and first boyfriend at 15... and then most of my friends hadn't had one. Don't sit around wishing you had a boyfriend, when one comes along who you like, then worry about it. There's no point in going out with someone just because you want a boyfriend or just because some of your friends have one!
2007-03-11 08:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by Helen E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still very young and there is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend. I did not have my first boyfriend until 15. Don't get caught up in peer pressure. Enjoy being young while you can and what you do right now in school stays with you for life.
2007-03-11 08:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off it is not wierd! You will know when you are ready for a boyfriend!! And that lucky Guy will come soon and you will fall in love!!!! <3 Just don't let your friends rush you in to getting a boyfriend...and don't rush your self!!!!! Just be calm!! Good luck!!!! And I hoped this helped!!!!!!!!!!!!
If u need any thing else tell me!!!
L8r
2007-03-11 08:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Some people are faster than others. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 15. I guess it depends on what you want, your morals, and your parents. Don't feel pressured. Don't waste your first relationship on someone that you don't actually have feelings for. Wait, and and it'll happen when the time comes.
2007-03-11 08:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 11 when i was 11 i didn't have a boyfriend but when you get older more guys will like you like now i have about 7 guys ask me out every day(i'm 13 ) maybe the guys how like you are just shy
2007-03-11 08:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋