k well she done some stuff before and now she dont want to. she says she dont like how she feels after we do it. im 2 years older and she dont want to feel like a ho cause she 14. we havent had sex just other stuff i rly want to do this stuff cause she use to and just stopped and weve been going out for like 4 1/2 months. plz help
2007-03-11 07:53:26 · 17 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not talking about having sex, she said she dont want to do that and im ok with that and i understand. im talking about other stuff, anything esle
2007-03-11 07:58:45 · update #1
I SAID THERE WAS NO SEX AT ALL. I KNOW WERE BOTH TO YOUNG FOR THAT. im talking about other stuff, NO SEX
2007-03-11 08:02:06 · update #2
If you really like her, then you need to respect her wishes and try to understand!
2007-03-11 07:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young and she is too young, it is a big step for a girl to have sex. You are 2 years older that is a big deal. Give her time!
2007-03-11 15:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Rhonda B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is being smart. She is too young to have sex with you. In fact you shouldn't have sex until you are ready and able to be a parent. I am venturing a guess that you are not. She is actually acting far more maturely and responsibly than you are.
2007-03-11 14:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by crzyanl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is having second thoughts about what the two of you were doing. Same happened with my girlfriend. Just ask her whats on her mind and try to come to a compromise. give a little get a little man.
Good Luck!
2007-03-11 14:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by The Flying Porcupine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14, she's too young to have started having sex at all, and now she regrets it.
2007-03-11 14:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg she's too YOUNG. and so are you. bf/gf relationships are not based on the sex. if she's stopped that ...good. now, why are you with her? only because of that? try learning how to get along with her...the opposite sex. you see, getting along with a person is difficult for you? have you no other commonalities? learn to get along with out that.
2007-03-11 15:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she dont want the same things as you then you can either wait till she's ready, tell her you would like to get to the next level, but u'll wait till she's ready or you can dump her and find someone else who wants the same things as you.
2007-03-11 15:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants more from you, then just sex. Maybe she getting tired of it. Maybe, your asking her to much. Sit back relax. It will come to you. give her time.
Maybe shes PG. try a girl your own age. if you can. Give your girl to time to grow.
Then maybe she just getting tired of you, and is looking for someone else who she likes better. Maybe she just don't want to do it ,with you no more. Did you ever think of that?
It hurts don't it? thinking about how she maybe having sex with someone else.
Doesn't it just eat you up inside. Maybe thats what she's doing. Having sex with someone else. And maybe, she found out he's better then you, and can give her more.
Maybe she found someone who has lots of money and can buy her things.
Yea! thats it, she's found someone, and is giving it to him, and she likes it!
You never will know will you? unless she tells you or you find out.
2007-03-11 15:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she realized it's illegal and she doesn't want to go go to jail for rape.
Maybe she just isn't ready.. even if she already did things she can change her mind or realize she wasn't ready to begin with.
2007-03-11 14:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just respect her feelings, because if you do, she will really think of you as a great person for understanding.
2007-03-11 14:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋