It baffles me all the time that when i show more interest in a woman, they begin to give me a wide berth, but when i told myself : to heck with them am through with women, i see them coming my way showing interest. Am confused because the problem is i hate playing games and when i desire a woman that is when i truely show love but when they start coming when my heart is not there i find it difficult to show any love and they will want me to but i will be getting angry. Why won,t they come when my heart is full with love?
2007-03-11 07:52:23 · 7 answers · asked by lovely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem may not be you. Women know that men usually want one thing - sex. Women want relationships. Guys have a general reputation of "OK, I'll do the relationship thing, or I will pretend to want a relationship thing 'cus she wants it. I won't give her the relationship until we have sex, then I'll split unless the sex was really good. I'll keep getting the sex until I've had enough - then I'll split and try again later with her or another girl."
That's generally how it goes. When you give up like that, they can sense it and feel safe around you. And that basically is what is happening. It's all about trust. They are trusting you not to hurt them emotionally and not to deceive them sexually.
Once a man matures, he realizes this and understands. Hope some of these comments give you some insight. Good luck with finding love, home and family.
2007-03-19 07:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's called 'playing a bit hard to get' - dont give up too easily if you are realy interested.
2007-03-11 07:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a girls point of view, i woudl have to say they are scared. I know when a guy likes me i get scared cause i dont' know what to do. Its more of nervousness for me though. I mean its like wow they finally like me i don't want to blow it. But once they think you don't like them then they think they blew it.
2007-03-11 07:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by music fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where your comming from,i been there too.I hate games from there part.When i want them they jus make excuse or put on a dissapearing act on me.Then when i back off they come-whats wrong with these guys?i tell u one of these days,well jus one of these days all i got to say for now.
2007-03-19 05:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women love to be chased around and its fun. So do a little of it and when u get her she will do the chasing. Comeo its a boys job. Do it good stuff do not come easily.
2007-03-18 21:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Highbury 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's what life is all about.You get the best out of life only when you least expect it.
2007-03-11 07:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
people want what they think they cant have thats all there is 2 that.
2007-03-19 07:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becouse as women we love a challenge.
2007-03-19 07:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by fushia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋