There is this guy "Stephen" in my band class I have lately been making eye contact with. I turn around and then our eyes just lock. Repetitively. One day when we were waiting to be let inside from a field trip, I was standing impatiently waiting at the door and he was sort of besides me yet off to the side and he starts talking about something totally random!!!! Does he like me? I sort of like him, yet I still like this other guy too, but we don't talk much. "Stephen" is very nice to me and kinda cute, but he just broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago. I see "Stephen" more often than the other completely different guy I like. I am torn in two. What should I do? Does "Stephen" like me?
2007-03-11 07:39:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't stare at him, I just glance back at the annoying percussion section which is behind me.
2007-03-11 07:47:50 · update #1
Well i think the vibes are good ^^...i mean eye contact is the 1st sign of interest heheheheh lol so yeah try to talk to him a little more and get to know him. You see "Stephen" often which is a good thing.. but if you get to talk to the other guy, then you can chose the one you get alon with best. IT seems that Stephen is interested though...te choice is yours;)
Take care.
2007-03-11 07:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at the way u put it,I say Stephen does have a crush on you.Since you too like him,why bring the other guy in and make things complicated for yourself?Try being nice to Stephen,and let him fel good around you,(just to get him out of that shock of his break up),and things will come out to be good for you and Stephen.
2007-03-11 07:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but the thing is, the younger you are, the more crushes you have. I have a friend with 5 sincere crushes. Who do you enjoy spending time with more? Who makes your heart flutter more? Who do you have a better chance with? These are all things to ask yourself. And from what you've said, I'm not sure if "Stephen" likes you or not. I think he may see potential and is starting to like you- a lot. Talk with both of the guys.
2007-03-11 07:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by Laureneliz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stephen's eye contact is trying to tell you something. Talk to the guy more, and from what you said, I think he likes you, just does not know exactly how to say it. I would give Stephen a chance, you said he was so nice.
2007-03-11 07:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you dont give much description about this ''stephen'' guy just with the eye contact he could think you a loser when he looks at you and wants to know why you always stare at him and that other guy if you dont talk to him much then i doubt he likes you since he hardly knows you.
2007-03-11 07:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Roman H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he looks at you, smile back, then look away and let him take it from there. He'll know that you find him interesting, and it's his job to come talk to you. If he can't, he isn't ready for that yet, for whatever reason.
You don't want everyone in the band (!) to know your business! If it works out, that's fine, but you don't really want them talking about how you like S but he doesn't like you.
2007-03-18 20:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mary girl, i will advice you to keep on watching Steve, because at times most guys use to be nice when they see a a girl they like, they will be pretending till when they get the girl, they will bring out who they are. S o dear am advicing you to keep on watching him to know whether he's the right guy for you. Ok?
2007-03-19 06:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if stephan can make eye contact, nd come up nd talk to u randomly then hes interested, nd u have a better chance with stephan then with the other guy, since u nd the other guy barely talk. It seemsz like u nd stephan have a lil thing goin on
2007-03-11 07:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by xoxopriyanka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think yes he likes u eye contact in the way u described it means 99% to me! on the other issue which of two u choose there is no answer it will depend from their future behaviour and by u only whom u want more.. good luck
2007-03-11 07:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by manosn1b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he may like you yeah or at least want to get to know you more. Just try and talk to him more offten and see what happens once u feel good about things ask him if he likes you or not you will never know untill you just ask. But get to know him better before you do that.
2007-03-19 07:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋