I think I almost orgasmed, but didn't. tell me if I'm correct.
No guy has ever made me orgasm.
This new guy is really good with his tougne.
He went down on me for like half an hour and I started having muscle spasms for a few minutes and it felt really really intensly good like I was almost there but not quite.
Am I right, is there some sort of release or explosion at orgasm for a girl?
So I was I close, but not there yet?
2007-03-11 07:38:11 · 14 answers · asked by Sammy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay I am a female and when I orgasm.....I get muscle spasms right before I orgasm....During it I have an explosion of good feelings and I have no control over my body....You were really close...Next time, tell him to keep up the good work and when you feel the"spasms" tell him not to stop......Don't worry I had the same problem for a while....All it took for me was to realize it was my being uncomfortable and shy that was causing me not to get the full experience.....
2007-03-11 07:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by nikki 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You were close ,as you will know for sure when you experience the Big O. When you do have your orgasm you will reach a plateau and then feel like you're in paradise with a release afterwards and you will feel satisfied. A good idea is to have face to face intercourse where you put your legs around him and move your pelvis to initiate a sexual response and have him go slow at the time. The best orgasm is with intercourse, really, just take it slow and relax and you will see what I mean. With intercourse the penis hits the GSpot and the orgasm is unbelievable! What you can do to prepare for this ---- is locate your GSpot on your own , just lay down on your bed and insert your finger to the back of your vagina until it feels good and then during intercourse you can help him to move a certain way as to reach that Spot with his penis. You will see what I mean and you will have the best Orgasms ever! Good Luck!
2007-03-11 07:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by lorrina b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you afraid to orgasm? sounds to me like your the type that loves the teasing by the clit. Try this, as soon as the guy goes down on you and you feel the sensation, tell him your ready, and have him insert when your ready. You just might be the type that loves to have that huge tease and then make love. Good luck!
2007-03-11 07:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by grumpyme2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly it does ensue, at the beginning, im useful you recognize this, nut.... maybe you dont, its quite the clitorism fir women human beings or the mystreriouse G spot, yet we wont bypass there, lol yet its the clit, that quite desires the stimulation, its no longer likely with regard to the penis going out and in! perfect? so once you utilize tiyr vibrators, and that i cant recomend the RABBIT adequate, you may desire to purchase them online or any intercourse save, yet attempt that. the different ingredient is you have gotten an ocluded clitoris, the place the hood that covers the clit, is a touch to to thick or covers the whole clit, you would be able to could desire to tug decrease back on that a touch greater to truly get to the clitoris attempt googleing occuled clitoris and learn that, then i might talk over with a woman gyno, or intercourse therapyst, and spot what they could desire to assert. thats all i've got been given! wish it enables
2016-10-01 22:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you could've blown any moment. I'd say you were dangerously, perilously close, but in a good way. You might've been having "baby" orgasms. But trust me, you'd certainly know when you get a full-grown one. <3
2007-03-11 07:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by The Prep 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep practicing until you know for sure. Where were his hands & fingers while he was munching?
2007-03-11 07:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by WILLIAM W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you were almost there, you needed to go a little further... you'll know when you actually have one.
2007-03-11 07:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were def. close
2007-03-11 07:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by Christina U 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it took him a half hour i must be greattttt1
i get em off in less then5 minutes i must be a muff diving legend
2007-03-11 07:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yep, sounds to me like you were close. you would know if you got there, trust me.
2007-03-11 07:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋