A mutual guy friend introduced me to mike,hoping we could be a good match.I don't date married men,but ialways seem to choose the wrong men.When i met mike,we were both curious/ attracted to eachother. Mike admitted he was still seeing another woman.Mike claims to still love this older MARRIED woman(sigh)but wants to leave her because she cannot give him a future(children,marriage..)It shows she is still strongly in control of him.Question:Should i still date this man?
2007-03-11 07:37:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way..does it make sense that we become friends and who knows in the futur what can evolve.just a THOUGHTO0o
2007-03-11 07:53:40 · update #1
she is separated from husband..he lives in USA SHE LIVES IN CANADA..mike isn't married!!
2007-03-11 07:55:14 · update #2
Do not ever make a judgment of another's life or actions until you have walked in his or her shoes ... you may not condone the action but investigate privately and you may be very surprised by what you find....
2007-03-11 07:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by ccseg2006 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I have never really understood why people want to get involved with a person who belongs to someone else at the very least you are stealing from someone else and at best you are filling an empty spot in some bored marriage...
Is he just in love with her or still sleeping with her? When I met my fiance he was still in love with his ex which I am happy to say he is well over but if he were sleeping with her I would not have got involved.... Look out for yourself...
2007-03-11 14:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by M B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't have very high regard for this Mike character.
i would consider his situation a deceitful one -- as in, her husband doesn't KNOW about the affair, i'm sure.
if Mike would open himself to this sort of behavior, he's a sneak.
so, i imagine it's up to you... you know the type of person you want to be involved with, and if Mike fits the bill, go for it?
i wouldn't go out with Mike -- i have some dignity left.
all the best!
2007-03-11 14:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, if he is involved with someone else, married or not, don't waste your time. There are many other good fish in the sea. Also, I would tend to wonder what he thought about marriage and commitment, if he is helping someone else be unfaithful, what would happen when it came time for him to be faithful to you?
2007-03-11 14:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jbr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think a married man will leave his wife for another woman, better think again, because it will costs him a lot of money.
If he leaves his wife for you, think what he'll do to you. Eventually he'll find another woman and leave you
2007-03-11 14:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by kayef57 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He clearly doesn't hold marriage in a very high regard. If he did he wouldn't interfere with someone elses. Ask yourself if you can be with someone that can justify cheating.
2007-03-11 14:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOOO.I want you to pay close attention to your past.was your father in your life and what role did he play.
your choice in men has to do with that.take time to know yourself.get out nooooooow
2007-03-11 14:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why date someone that's not going to give you 100% of himself? you're just setting yourself up for disappointment, and you deserve so much better!
2007-03-11 14:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, find a guy that is available.
Re-evaluate what you look for in a potential mate.
2007-03-11 14:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
heck, yes they are the best. Why chose someone that knows nothing about life and will probably screw it up.
2007-03-11 14:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by PrettyEskimo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋