I'm not sure what to do... I've been in puberty (is that spelled right?) for about 3-5 months. There are some girls i really wanna kiss. I've never kissed a girl before but i really want to.
I have lots of girls...i'm like the most popular in school. but there's 1 problem, I gotta ask my parents if I can. I'm a good kid with (mostly) strait A's. I don't wanna disobey my parents but i don't know how to ask them if i can kiss.
2007-03-11 07:36:57 · 16 answers · asked by DJared 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ahh hormones. naturally you will feel like kissing every girl in sight but the one part about growing up is learning how important it is to not give in to all the feelings your going to experience. wait to have your first kiss when you are a bit older and have a special girl
2007-03-11 07:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you got an uncle or an older brother or cousin you can talk to? They will probably offer you good advice on first kisses better than your parents.
But I still think you should talk it over with them too, they might be more open minded than you think, and after all they both had to start kissing once too.
Just remember, being friends with a girl is more important than the actual kissing. The kissing bit is like the bit to look forward to after you have had a good friendship, and then as boyfriend and girlfriend.
You are just starting out, take your time. You'll remember that first kiss forever, so do it right, with the right girl, when the time feels right.
Good luck.
2007-03-11 14:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by wonkyfella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask your parents if you can kiss a girl on the hand or cheek, and after doing that for a bit, make sure your parents trust you with this sort of thing, and ask them straight out if it's okay to kiss. But not making out--not quite yet.
2007-03-11 14:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Fizzed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to stay focused. Right now your body is going ape nuts over the new systems that have suddenly gone active, and you don't yet have the proper experience at controlling the urges. Just keep focused and restrain yourself for at least a year, until you get more comfortable with the thoughts that go through your head. The last thing you want is to make a complete *** out of yourself, jumping into a situation you aren't properly prepared for.
2007-03-11 14:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by P.I. Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW i never knew you need permission to kiss.. and that is deffinlently a question i would NEVER ask my parents... it depends how old you are also, if you are like ages 10 - 12 i would say that your parents would say no but 13- ?? yes probably.. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-11 14:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Twizzlers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this isnt sex. and if ur over 5th grade, then u can kiss. ur parents shouldnt have to give u permission. y do u have to ask the rents???? it may b really REALLY awkward if u ask them if u can kiss. so u can just casually b like, what would u say if i told u i kissed sum1 today? and then... u'll figure out if u can or cant kiss.
2007-03-11 14:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them if you can go on a date and then gradually work into the conversation about the kissing
2007-03-11 14:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont need to ask ur parents if u can kiss a gurl, just ask them if u can have a gf, cuz having a gf will mean u'll obviously be kissing her, nd then after you kiss her, u shud have a "bonding moment" wit ur dad where u tell him that u kissed a gurl, just incase, so they kno u've kissed a gurl
2007-03-11 14:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by xoxopriyanka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In an adult matter ask if you can date. Then sorta give them a look, like I'm going to kiss too, and they'll probably understand.
2007-03-11 14:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by The Curse of Curves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darn I can't picture my 14 yr old son asking me if he can kiss a girl nor would I expect him to ask me.
2007-03-11 14:39:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋