I fell like i'm at my end because My education isn't goin no where , Then i fell like tellin my ex -girlfriend i love her but she has a man , Then I fell like i'm losing it cause i'm tryin to find a Job . I just need peace of mind . Somebody please send me a email or an answer to solve these problems . Mentally , & emoitonally .
2007-03-11 07:35:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wish you overcome all the adversities with your courage and wisdom
2007-03-11 07:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like if you feel like your education is going no where than maybe this subject just isn't for you. I know it hard to accept, seeing you might've spent years, and lots of money prosueing this education, which you thought you wanted, but now that you're in it, you realize its not. You should try to expand your knowledge, I suggest looking into art. Art helps me heal, it might sound dumb, but maybe there is something you forgot that you loved to do, like Im going way back like elementery school, were you good in art class? Did you love to sing? Maybe you more analytical, maybe you remember enjoyed learning how to solve math problems, or discovering the way the universe works. Trust me, about that whole I love this girl but she doesnt love me, it just isn't love, love is shared by both parties, you can't love them with out them loving you, that just isn't love. Find someone who loves you, stop thinking that this girl is the one for you, because she isn't she's someone elses girl, and Im a romantic so there is somebody out there, who will love you the same way you love them, you just have to be patient. With thte whole job thing, you're probably looking into a job that might be out of your league, start small, it sucks but your going to have to do the drone work before other will realize hey this guy is pretty good at what he does and he has loyality. It is also hard for people to admit they have a problem they can't fix on their own, go to psychitrist stop trying to be the "big macho man" who can handle these problem without going to the "shrink". It's nothing to be embarassed about, people still love thinking that "oh well, you just don't have any motivation", it is easy for them to say because they don't suffer the way we do. You probably need medication, and don't ever let anyone convince you you're a weak person because of it. It is just liek a disease, mental health should be seen the same as physical health, you need to get checked out, do it, don't even think about it, just do it, where can you go wrong if you only try and see someone, you said this is the end right, so whats your last resort... go see a dr.
2007-03-11 14:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by Whole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. First is getting a job. Not sure what your skills are but the local paper is a start or Monster.com.
In regards to your ex, is there a chance you two can re-start your relationship? If not, then you'll be ok and someone else will cross your path.
In regards to your education, well this is like your employement situation. Not sure what you are studying or what your issues are. Consider going to a school counselor as a start with your issues.
Good luck!
2007-03-11 14:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by U812B4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, sounds like you are really stressed out. Just take a breather. You have a lot of issues you are dealing with right now. Obviously no one can solve these things for you. What might be helpful for you right now is to talk with a close friend or relative, counselor or clergy person and sort through all the things that are stressing you out. But ultimately YOU have to be willing to change the things in your life that are making you so stressed. Good luck...
2007-03-11 14:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex may feel the same way you do but if you don't say anything you will never know and you will be left wondering for the rest of your life what could have been? as far as your job it took me 7 years to find the right career path now I'm happy but i don't think i ever have complete peace of mind its always something going on you just have to deal with it the best you can
2007-03-11 14:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually you'll get through it. I know its tough but you need to be strong. Take a break...go on vacation...hangout with your friends...party all night...or just stay home watch your favorite movies eat ice cream...Remember that in every tunnel there's a light in the end. Do something that will keep you busy.
2007-03-11 14:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude dont worry lifes not always easy. Just try youre best Good Luck Man .
2007-03-11 14:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear,how sad,never mind.
2007-03-11 14:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋