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太在乎,就什麼也得不到
不像讀書考試一樣,對於一個人的追求
並不是你付出的越多,得到的回報就會越大
如果把你的給予當橫軸,別人的回應當縱軸畫成曲線
你會發現邊際遞減率在一個定值之後以非常不可思議的速度上升
為什麼,我每天打電話對她噓寒問暖,得到的只是冷漠的回應?
為什麼,在一群朋友出去玩的時候,她總是對我特別疏遠?
為什麼,即使我竭盡所能的對她好,卻仍無法在她心中擁有一丁點應得的地位?
我說:「太在乎,就什麼也得不到」
當你太在乎一個人的時候,你的心裡能裝的下的東西就變少了
滿腦子想的都是她,無時無刻都在想能為她做些什麼
於是,你喪失了自我,成為一個為別人而活的人。
你不再有自己的生活,不再有和對方不一樣的地方
每說一句話,你都小心翼翼,期待能夠有好的回應
每做一件事,你都考慮再三,希望她能夠被你感動
然後你會發現,聊天的話題好像變少了,相處不在像從前當朋友般的開心自在
她隨口說出的一句話,網誌上的一篇心情,可以牽動你全身的神經,有時讓你開心不已,
但大部分的時候卻是讓你魂不守舍一整天。
隨之而來的,是她開始感受到壓力
生命是一種很容易適應變化的東西
如同把雙腳泡在熱水中,不一會兒就從有點燙變成舒適的溫暖
一開始你對她好,感覺是很鮮明,很強烈的
會很開心,會很感激
但如果頻率太高,強度太大
就好像坐在按摩椅上太久一般
舒服的感覺不見了,
取而代之的是想要好好靜一下的需要。
如果這時還繼續強求下去
最後的結局就是發卡甚至被討厭。
"欲擒故縱才是最高明的技巧"
大概大家聽到耳朵都爛了吧。
你知道,我知道,可是就是做不到。
沒有辦法不對她好。
當我們越是在乎一個人的時候,越難拿捏自己的分寸
不是對她好到無以復加,就是賭氣強迫自己疏離耍自閉。
所以,最簡單的方法,就是不去在意。
對自己好一點,努力追尋自己的理想
不斷的充實自己,為自己的將來做準備
功課不夠好嗎?去圖書館多K一些書吧
人長的不夠帥嗎?去健身房把自己變成陽光形男吧
嫌自己口才不佳,進對應退不夠圓滑,那麼參加社團磨練一番吧
這些事情,夠你忙的了
然後,把她放在你心中的優先順序的第二位,甚至第三位

會發現,一切都變簡單了

不是說兩個人就一定會有結果

而是你開始可以跳脫這個泥沼,用更客觀精準的眼光

看待彼此之間

2007-03-11 06:52:22 · 5 answers · asked by tutu7931 1 in Society & Culture Languages

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It must be someone's blog. I bet it's a 20-ish Taiwanese guy. Anyway, here's the best that I can do. He omited and misused many words and punctuations. No paragraphs pattern. Grammar is terrible. I hope you're not using this to learn Chinese.
Some sentence sound weird, but that's really just how it is!
The general idea is that this guy is in love with this girl but she doesn't response to his love. (but I think he hasn't even express his love) He's disappointed but can't help thinking about her. He has determined to forget about her and focus on his own future.

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Care too much, you'd get nothing.
Unlike studying for an exam, for one's ambition
It's not like the more you give, the more you'll get in return.
If you use your offer as traverse, [use] other's response drawn as curve,
You'll find the marginal rate of substitution will increase magically after certain price.
Why, I call her everyday and only get unconcern response?
Why, when i go play with a group of friends, she would distance me even more?
Why, doesn't how hard I try to please her, I still can't do not have a tiniest place in her heart?
I say, "Caring too much, you'd get nothing."
When you care too much about someone, the matters you can contain in your heart gets fewer.
My head is full of her, there's not a time that I don't think about what I can do for her.
Then, you lost self, become a person who lives for someone else.
You don't have your own life anymore, you don't have difference from that person anymore.
Every sentence, you say it carefully, longing for good response.
Everything, you think thrice, wishing she will be moved by you.
Then you realised, conersations are fewer, becoming less than a friend [we] used to be.
She just said, an emotional blog can awaken the nerves in your entire body.
But most of the time it make you feel like your spirit has left your body the entire day.
Following, is that she started to feel some pressure.
Life is a kind of ever-changing thing.
If you soak your feet in hot water, after a little while, it's not hot but comfortably warm.
In the beginning you're nice to her, feeling is very clear, very strong
Would be very happy, would be very exciting
If it's too efficient, too intensive
Would be like sitting on a massage chair for too long
Comfort disappeared.
In replacement is wanting to be quiet for a while.
If at this time [you] wanna insist on continuing.
The ending will be that [you] be hated.
"to try to get something by feigning uninterestedness or making concessions is the best tactic."
Everyone's ears are "broken" from hearing by now right?
You know, I know, but still can't do it.
Can't not care about her.
The more we care about someone, the more we fabricate untruth to self.
If not treating her extremely nice, then it's treating myself rashly with isolation.
Therefore, The best way, is not to care.
Treat myself a bit better, Work hard to follow my own dream.
To better myself, be prepared for my future
Homework is not good enough? Go to gym to make myself the sunshine type guy
dislike my lack in verbal ability, response not slick enough, then join the society group to practise
These thing, will make you busy enough.
Then, Put her in 2nd place in your heart, even 3rd place

Then discover, everything becomes simply.

Not saying two people must end up together.

But you can start getting out of the dump, become more objective and sharp.

Deal with each other

2007-03-11 07:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi,

I translated as much of the text that i could for you, it is as reads......

Care about, it will not get anything like the same reading test for a person not to pursue the more you pay. The return will be greater if you give when horizontal. the others should be back painted vertical curve, you would find that the marginal decline in the rate of a fixed rate of duty after a very incredible Why, I called her daily greetings, the only cold response? Why, in a group of friends out to play, she was always special to me apart? Why, even if I do our best for her, not in her heart still should have a little bit ... I said : "care about, it will get nothing" When you care about a person, you can hold in the hearts of the less things change on the heads of her age, like her at all times, are able to do so, you lose self-control, as a people who live for others. You no longer have their own life and have no place and they do not like to say a few words each, you are extremely wary, look forward to a good response to each do one thing, you have to consider again, and I hope she can be moved and then you will discover you. chat topic seem to have become less, not each other like friends ... as in the past when she casually remark, An Internet Chronicles, can affect your body's nerves. Most of the time ... but you are absent for a whole day. Subsequently, She began to feel the pressure of life is a very easy to adapt to change things like put feet soaking in hot water. Soon a bit hot from the start you into the warmth of her comfortable, feeling very distinctive, very strong will be very happy. will be very grateful if the frequency is too high, too much intensity as comfortable sitting in the massage chair for too long the general feeling disappeared, Instead, the static want to make some needs. If, at this time, continue to insist on issuing the final outcome is even disgusting. "Is the most brilliant playing cat and mouse skills," Duran ears when they heard about the bar. You know, I know, but is not. She better not wrong. 當我們越是在乎一個人的時候,越難拿捏自己的分寸 不是對她好到無以復加,is tuned to the race call himself alienated from the game close. Therefore, the simplest way to do this is not Italy. Of their better efforts in the pursuit of their dreams constantly enrich themselves, not enough homework to prepare for their future, alright? K b libraries to some people long enough Shuai? Go to the gym to change itself into a sun-shaped bar men suspected his eloquence poor enough tactful retreat into counterparts. Then temper some bar associations to participate in these things, then the busy enough you, She put the priority on your mind the second place, even third place will be found, All that has changed is not simply two people but you will certainly have begun to be bound by the results of this morass. Precision with a more objective point of view between the......

I hope this helps xox

2007-03-11 07:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by § gαввαηα § 5 · 1 0

Well, heres what babelfish came up with. Traditional Chinese - The thing 湡dormancy 湩 is barren □□□□ Simple Chinese - Thing □dormancy □barren □worried thoughts 潴 otter So... it sounds to me like the jist of the phrase is something like "A troubled sleeping otter can bear no children."

2016-03-29 00:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i can't translate all of it, but i think it's about a guy who is thinking about this girl and he's like lovesick

2007-03-11 06:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by pommy 3 · 0 0

First of all, that is japanese.

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Going out for 什麼, being 1 group friend it is season, of 去玩? 總 affirmative 對 I special 疏遠?
《主語なし》Is it 對 of 使 I 竭盡 place ability immediately for 什麼? 《主語なし》Favorite, 卻仍 unlawful being? is it Suicide 擁有 1 丁點應..
I? : "太 being 乎, 就什麼也 profitable un到" 當? 太 being 乎 1 personal season? The metropolis affirmative of east and west 就變 little 了滿腦 child 想 of under of target heart 裡 ability 裝? 《主語なし》Is it un刻 metropolis being 想 ability for at the time of none? 做些什麼於 affirmative? 《主語なし》I am the person of for different person 而 life 1 piece a/the loss 了 ego, 成 for.
? The district of the life, un有 sum 對 one non 1 樣 of un有 self? ? One phrase conversation? A metropolis timid wing wing, expectation ability? 有 favorite target time 應? 做 case that? 《主語なし》Is it hope more than once, a/the metropolis consideration? Ability? 被? Deep impression 然 after? It is 當 friend 般 target.. before picture 從 without topic favorite picture 變 little 了, phase 處 of 會發 present, the 聊 sky.
? The 隨 mouth? Going out it is 1 of 篇 feeling, passable 以牽 movement of a/the target 1 phrase conversation, the net magazine top? 《主語なし》Systemic God 經,... 但 large partial season 卻 affirmative 讓? is it The soul unMamoru 舍 1 整 sky.
A/the 隨之而來 target, affirmative? 《主語なし》Is it east and west 如 same 把雙 of 應變 -ization that is suited easy a kind of 很 start susceptiveness 到壓 power life affirmative? 《主語なし》Is it non 1 會兒就從有點 during foam being heated water? 《注意:一部解析不可能》《主語なし》變成舒 sUITED target? an is it One warm start? 對? Favorite, impression 覺 affirmative 很 clear, 很 strong target 會很 open heart, 會很 excitement 但如果頻 rate 太 high, unseeing it impression 覺 of 太久 general 舒 clothes on strength 太 large 就 favorite picture 坐 being massage 椅 it is the demand of affirmative 想 point favorite favorite 靜 1 under of 了, 取而 reign 之.
《主語なし》Is it 就 affirmative 發 after all a 還繼續 strong 求 under 去 last target at the time of 如果這? 《主語なし》It is disagreeable 甚 solstice 被討.
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? A/the wisdom way, I wisdom way, passable affirmative 就 affirmative 做 un到.
沒有? Law un對? 《主語なし》It is favorite.
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The method, 就 affirmative un去 being mind of hence, most 簡單.
將來做 preparation merit department non of the 充 Jitsu self, for self of ideal un斷 of 對 self Koichi 點, effort 追 fathom self? 《主語なし》Is it favorite? ? A 去圖 book mansion many K 1 些 book?
Person long target non? 帥? ? A 去 healthy body bunch 把 self 變成 sunlight form man?
Disagreeable self mouth talent un佳, binary 對應退 non? 圓 Namera, 那麼參加 company 團磨練 most most?
這些 circumstances? ? 《主語なし》Is it 把 after 了然 of 忙? 放 being? No. second place, the 3rd 甚 solstice place of the priority order of a/the suicide

會發 present, at all metropolis 變簡單了

Unaffirmative? The 兩 private 就 regular 會有 result

而 affirmative? Start passable 以跳? Eye light of more visitor 觀精 quasifor 這 piece bog,

《主語なし》I care for it and 待 he this 之 period


That is what that means.

2007-03-11 07:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by layanne1 4 · 0 4

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