2007-03-11 06:48:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you need to ask ? Don't you know.
2007-03-11 06:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is making most of all decisions,like: he's choice of movies, where or what to eat, how you dress, when,where and how to talk, etc...do you get the Idea?
By giving in to him for most or all the time, you have or are loosing you're Identity=(he's in controll)
I would think that, according to you're question, some of this is already happening or else you wouldn't raise this Q's!
Take a good look at you're relationship and change (if possible) any such behaviour. If you can't, get OUT!
2007-03-11 07:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he listen when you say what you want? Do you have a choice?
Does he tell you or ask you?
Does he question you about stuff that isn't his business? Does he ask all about you but you know nothing about him?
Is he unusually jealous of other guys talking to you? Does he tell you how to wear your hair, makeup, clothing?
Has he met your parents? If they don't like him, there's a reason why. They are not trying to be a pain, they have experience; listen to them! Are your friends avoiding him because he's an ***?
If you are asking this question, he probably is.
2007-03-11 06:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then you may already be thinking that he is. If you can;t be you without him having something negative to say about it, that is being controlling.
If he is, move on, it never gets any better.
2007-03-11 06:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Colleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he tell you what friends you can have? Does he tell you what you can wear? Does he tell you where you can go? Does he tell you how to act? Does he tell you what music you will listen to? These are controlling signs.
2007-03-11 06:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by romettifamily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you only to himself,he wants to know your every move,he calls just to see what you are doing,you know longer have friends male or female[ he is all you need] he tells you what to wear,need i say more if you or anyone know someone like that drop him or her.
2007-03-11 06:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by kimberly T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps you from spending any time with your friends, tells you what to do and how to do it, and won't let you be YOU, then he is controlling you. If he doesn't trust you, you can't trust him.
2007-03-11 06:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some specific info would have helped to answer this question, but does he allow to you go out with your friends? does he look through your cell phone to see who you talk to? if he is doing things like that, then he probably is trying to... give us more info!!!!
2007-03-11 06:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seem to be doing whatever he tells you too even though you don't want to do it.
2007-03-11 06:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by princess12wannab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is controlling you...he probably is.
2007-03-11 07:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by malysah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit more info would help hon.
2007-03-11 06:54:20 · answer #11 · answered by Jenni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋