I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc
she crossed my mind a few times since then so I got her number from my friends new wife, and gave her a call. She was driving at the time so I told her I'd call her back in 15 but she didn't answer. i text her to say i don't understand what i said in the matter of minutes to make her ignore me and that i would take it as if she is having a bad day... she text me back to let me know she was having a bad day and that she would be free the next day should i wish to call. i was busy all week so i called her at the end of the week but no answer. she text me a few days later apologising, & she was having it hard and busy with work, but saying i should call her sometime during the day. considering the trends so far i am no fool - she will not answer.
whats the deal with her?
2007-03-11 06:47:48 · 12 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She could just be going thru a rough patch.... If she didnt want you to call, she wouldn't have told you to call, and she DEFINTLEY wouldn't have told you win to call.
2007-03-11 06:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by dollbabe92 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you called her while she was driving, said you would call back in 15, did, and then you text her what? Okay, that would have rubbed me the wrong way. Sometimes you are too busy doing something to answer the phone, have the music too loud....give her a break. You sound too desperate for me hunny. Its great you took the initiative to call her, but give her a break. You said it yourself that she is having a hard time at work and such. Give her a call, leave her a message and ask her to call you if she still wants to go out. Let the ball be in her court, that way you will know if you went too far. If you dont think that she is going to answer, she probably wont. If you like her, call her, but you can probably find someone else who will be looking for the type of relationship that you are. Good luck
2007-03-11 13:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares, honey? You just met her, and you admitted she talked mostly about herself at the wedding. Sounds like she's too wrapped up in herself. It was nice of you to give her the initial call. The fact that she didn't answer would have made me wait a few days to try again. I would never have texted her; you really didn't know her or her intentions that well. I don't like the light you cast yourself in by asking why she ignored you....sounds too apologetic. So she's busy and la, la ,la. She's still not answering? Hmmm. you're no fool. Delete that number!
2007-03-11 13:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she is perhaps seeing someone else and wants to be on the safe side.However..take it easy..this might not be the case.Perhaps she has really been busy.Dont call her up anymore..But leave her the option(by sending her a text) that she can call u up anytime.If she does,try to be friends with her before deciding anything.good luck:)
2007-03-11 13:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer her the option of calling you at the end of the week. She may really be having a tough time. If you don't hear from her, move on. She's trying to let you down easy.
2007-03-11 13:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably wanting company at the wedding, but now isn't really interested in getting involved. She's may have personnel issues she's dealing with. She may not be as interested as she initially thought she was, too, but isn't willing to tell you no because she feels it would be mean.
2007-03-11 13:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lady M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she found you interesting...at the wedding only.
you two aren't dating so why would you expect her to be on top of things like that? if she was really into you, she would do the best that she could to contact you. maybe it was that she was having a bad day and it's good that she apologized but it sounds like she considered your "wedding fling" just that. i would wait a little to see if SHE tries to contact you. if not, i'd let it go.
best of luck.
2007-03-11 13:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by thebodyelectric! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she could be playing hard to get or maybe she just not intersted. Wait to see if she calls you, let her call you. I think she might be avioding you. If she is MOVE on pllz. she def. not worth it. I'm mean she not making an effort to talk to you.....
>>>>>>BEST OF LUCK<<<<<
2007-03-11 14:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to chase her. She wants to be the object of YOUR desire, not the other way around. No matter how much she likes you, she wants to make sure that you are the one trailing behind.
2007-03-11 13:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she couldnt get the phone, call once more and see what happens u have nothing to lose
2007-03-11 14:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋