me and my ex were each others 1st love but he is always ion and outta jail and outta control,and always beat on me.but i see all my other friends gettin married and fallin in luv,and now i keep remembering me and my ex.so how do i get him outta my mind for good???
2007-03-11 06:15:37 · 14 answers · asked by **so lost** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just remember what it felt like to get beat on. Did you like it ? Would you like it again (it's a hard habit to break) ? Is your life not exciting enough ? Are you willing to accept his problems plus your own ? If you answered 'No' to any of those questions it's simple. Forget him and don't think any more about it. Period.
2007-03-11 06:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you enjoyed being beaten, (some girls do) why do you WANT to remember him. I can't understand girls who think some jerk who beats them is even worth the time it takes to scrape them off their shoes. Try getting a new bf, one who has not and will never go to jail. Only loosers end up in jail and why hook up with someone like that?? There are lots of nice guys out there who are honist and hard working and would treat you nice. Just avoid the "bad boys" like you would dog sh1t on the botttom of your shoe, and thats what most of them are.
2007-03-11 06:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has always been a question of mine. Now don't get me wrong i am not telling you that you are an idiot but i really have never got why women go back to there abusive boyfriends? He probably won't change. He could but he probably won't. Do you want kids? Do you want a father that is abusive? Just something to think about.
2007-03-11 06:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A first love is hard to forget, even if he did not abuse you like this one did. Just get back into the action. Meet people, go out in groups, try to have a good time. Don't look for a replacement. Look for someone who is fun to be with, someone you don't fight with, and have things in common.
2007-03-11 06:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by lestermount 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never forget the beatings the abuse.he is someone who has no respect for you.. no matter what words he uses to tell you how he feels. .once he layed a hand on you he threw all trust and respect for you out the window.. he is going to bring you down and keep you there..you need to focus on gettin your life together.. as you do that .. that speciall someone who diserves your love.. who will treat you with respect and will never hit you will come to you .. in my opinion... DONT BE WITH A GUY THAT HITS YOU>> HE IS A DOUCHE BAG..
2007-03-11 06:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by TheNOTORIOUSBerikBassline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off why you want a man that beats on you and is in and out of jail. what kind of life would that be for you. while your friends are with their husbands your alone because yours is in jail. you just need to get over him because he didn't love you enough not to put his hands on you. i don't understand why you females deal with bullsh*t like that from boys who call themselves men.. a man doesn hit his woman no matter what the situation is.. only b*tches hit women and he's a b*tch. find a man thats going to be good to you and not hit you.. its not love when he's hurting you remember that. your a woman and you need to realize that you deserve better.. don't settle for less when there's plenty of good men out there... love yourself.
2007-03-11 06:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never understood how women say their boyfriend or their man,when all you are is a punching bag.First you need to understand that he never had respect for you,he treated you as his proprety,not as a human being.You should NEVER let someone hit on you and call it love,it is abuse.Move on and never return to him for your own good.Wait on him and one day he may kill you.May god help you to understand this is wrong.WOMEN OF THE WORLD STOP LETTING MEN BEAT ON YOU ..
2007-03-11 07:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by junior1108 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, he is in jail..perfect time for you to start new. Do some things that you want to do. Enjoy life. You don't need that bum. Your worth more than what he gives..aren't you??
Have some fun. :)
2007-03-11 06:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about ever time he beat you and how much of a marriage can you have with him in jail
2007-03-11 06:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by superwomen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
"waiting for you I will tie 1000 yellow ribbons and myself around the old oak tree, and you can beat me every time you rip off those ribbons, my love I am already wet missing your beat"
2007-03-11 06:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋