I did something stupid....now I have to make ammends to a very sweet young lady..that took something the wrong way...way the wrong way....I need to know what other very "sweet" young ladies like to see when a guy has to apologize to you. I really like her alot...and its tearing me up that she's really pi%%ed off at me. She got mad at me cause I didn't talk to her when I should have. Problem is this...I think she is so great that my brain turns to mush when I see or talk with her. I sort-of blank out. I was so nervous that I just didn't say anything. I have helped other people so effortlessly with WAY more difficult situations. What's wrong with me...Im an idiot! I am never like this around anyone else just her.....please ladies help me out.
ps.
She reached out for some consolation...I was to nervous to talk to her...so I texted consolation instead...I am such an idiot.
I have been nervous around pretty girls. before...this one turns me into "mush-mouth"...its so funny to see
2007-03-11 06:14:23 · 15 answers · asked by Experimental876 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if you went and told her how you truly feel, she'd understand. Just be sincere.
2007-03-11 06:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by Candie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in grade 11 and most of my friends are out of school or in grade 12 almost graduating. I never in life been with a girl younger than me and all of them so beautiful. If you speak what your thoughts are about her she will respect you way more. Just tell her whats going on and she will understand, if you stay in the dark she will never see the problem. The first step to being with a girl is being open. Aswhile some girl loves a guy who listens to them and makes them happy when you can answer their questions. If you cant do that for her it was never might to be.
Dont get nervous and
2007-03-11 13:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you really do like this girl maybe you should just talk to her like you would a friend try telling her your not trying to avoid her or make her mad just come on out and tell her you really care about her and you turn into mush around her!!!! She will understand!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-03-11 15:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH.......ur really in love with her! OK i would apologize to her and say everything that u just said. I would say it at a beautiful park or some where that's beautiful. Like the beach. Grab her hand while ur apologizing to her so she knows that ur serious. Good Luck!
2007-03-11 13:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by ashlynnplascencia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you havn't been around that many pretty girls to know what to do to fix the situation try getting to know the opposite sex better, dont just look for relationships in the dating sense try becoming friends with a lot of girls, it helps when you know how they think and what goes through their heads and why they do some of the things they do it's part of human nature to fear something that we dont understand, seeing that you dont understand her you may want to get help from her female counterparts and friends who will understand why she feels the way she did thus helping you to rectify the situation
2007-03-11 13:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. Apoligize. Get over it. Being nervous isn't a valid readon for not doing something, it's an act of cowardice. Just talk to her. Who cares if you look stupid for a second, maybe she'll find it cute that you think so highly of her.
2007-03-11 13:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to toughen up and pull yourself together and tell her exactly what you said here. No one is above you or better than you in this life. She is just a person like you. I am sure she will understand, and probably be extremely flattered. Good luck
2007-03-11 13:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"masterKoKo"...
I read your previous questions. You sound insecure, and ... maybe a little bit lost and confused, about life and love itself.
You can start "talking" about it with ur "pretty girl".
If she is smart, she will understand and recognize ... the sweet lost soul inside you..
2007-03-11 13:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is p*$*$* at you for "ignoring" her it is probably cause she may like you just as much as you like her. If you just let her know how you feel and tell her why you haven't been able to talk to her, I believe she will stopped being p*$*$*.
2007-03-11 13:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon,,, u just answered urself... if i were her i would appreciate this question (but twiked) written aas a card. i would TOTALLY fall in luv with u... u already made me luv u just by readin it... trust me, it will work out because u sound like a really sweet guy
2007-03-11 13:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by idk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rehearse what you're going to say to her though that might now help because you might choke but if she likes you back, then she will find it cool that she has this power over you.
2007-03-11 13:17:39 · answer #11 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋