What do i do...if you love someone do you tell or keep a secret
2007-03-11 06:11:39 · 30 answers · asked by IC4NDY_ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so she beats you and is a drug dealer... You sure know how to pick them. I'd suggest a call to the police because if you're caught with her you will get the same penalty she does... And what do you think the odds are that she will say its all your idea. And how do you become a "respected" drug dealer? They are the lowest of the low. There should be a reward system for killing drug dealers. Like you get everything they own or something... might clean up the streets a whole lot! lol
2007-03-11 06:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your girlfriend is a respected drug dealer how can you stay with somone like that? That is no life for anyone. I once had a cousin who was a drug dealer in Arizona and was busted and went to prison for several years. After he went to prison, the woman that he was married to at the time, divorced him and he did not know where she was at. My cousin had a friend who busted him and he was arrested in his own home. You should probably keep it to yourself but stop seeing the woman. If she messes up then someone could also turn her in.
2007-03-11 13:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no respect for a drug dealer.
Do what you think is the right thing. Could you live in the home of a "dealer?" What if a rival wanted to take over her business? Would that involve you or your loved ones being harmed? Think about it, really think about it.
2007-03-11 13:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by pukcipriavroc8v 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is one a "respected" drug dealer? Sounds like an oxymoron; no one who deals drugs is respected by anyone. As for telling, you'd be much better off breaking off the relationship before you find yourself on the wrong side of the law too.
2007-03-11 13:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think youve answered your own question. Go with the gut. If its wrong to you then its wrong. Not a good secret that she is keeping from you. Then if it was me, Id feel a bit betrayed. Most of us have done something similar believe me! Plus think about it. You are now involved with someone doing illegal activity so you are now guilty by association. NOT GOOD. Do you really want to be there when she gets caught or worse yet when they arrest you along with her? Ask yourself seriously if this is what you want.
Get out while the going is good. There are more fish in the sea!!
Good luck!
2007-03-11 13:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by AB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart if i were you i would just love her support her and if she gets out of the game she will its hard to love someone who does that because you fear for her safety or she ends up in jail which ever way it goes keep that information to yourself the best kept secret is when only one knows it.
2007-03-11 13:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by kimberly T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PURPLE MONKEY!!!
Sorry, thought maybe that would get your attention, since you got all these answers...
I actually have been IN that boat before.
One of my ex-bf's is/was in a gang, dealt with drugs, fought/fights all the time....
He's my ex, not b/c of those things, he is a really great guy, but b/c of the distance in our relationship.
I suggest just being freinds with this girl, maybe as a friend u can talk her out of selling. If not, then you cna still consider yourself close to her w/o the higher risk of gettin in trouble.
2007-03-11 13:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by dollbabe92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her first and tell her she needs to make decision is it the drugs or you if she chooses the drugs then she does not love you like you thought i have no respect for drug dealers i hope there are no kids involved
2007-03-11 13:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by 1401 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her you need to do what is best for her in the long run. To me that would be getting her help or turning her in, that can be done without her ever knowing it was you. If she can get treatment and does her community service and accepts her probabtion, you can find yourself with an incredible woman.. I would never let her continue to deal, that is morally degrading.
2007-03-11 13:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it a secret..
Get her out of the business before she winds up in prison.
2007-03-11 13:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋