I feel like crying!!?

Question

There is a guy, I had a huge crush on him for the last two years. We are friends so we talked sometimes. I thought he liked me too.

I send him a message 4 weeks ago saying that, I liked him. He didn't respone to me. Does that mean he doesn't like me?

I feel like crying right now.

Answer 1

Not a very hopefull situation. You have a crush on him for already 2 years, and you "sometimes" talk to each other.
He didn't answer your message, so you may assume that this message was not important to him.
If he was interested in you he would have answered immediately. I think you know that and it is just the fact that you sent him this message, that bothers you, you feel sorry for your act. But better have tried then not have tried at all.
Forgive yourself this mistake, at least you have learned something from it. Give up you crush and open yourself for lots of new friendships! Start to make fun instead of being sad. Spring is near and the world's soooo beautiful.

Answer 2

I have been in similar shoes as you. The best thing to do right now is either play the waiting game or message him back and tell him if he'd like you would like to still be friends with him and you agree to not pursue him in that way unless he tells you other wise. And if you still don't get an answer then he probably wasn't worth liking in the first place. : )

Answer 3

He probably doesn't know how to react to what you said. Chances are, he did like you as a friend, but not sure whether he wants to pursue a deeper relationship. Sorry that you feel too sad to burst into tears, but I guess the next time you get to talk to him, see how his reaction to you is. If it has changed (like he has become distant, or cold) then take the hint that he wants to remain "just friends".
Cheer up!

Answer 4

I guess he's scared and he may or may not want to talk to you. He might have a girlfriend or something. Go ahead and let it out whenever you need to. Maybe you should try sending one more, short message. Just stay friends with him.

Answer 5

If there are some true feelings of love in him for you, nothing can stop him .It will return back to you and if its not you cant even expect that in your dreams.
so why fall back after a person who doesnt care..
and to tell you ..you are crying for the one who doesnt care for your love because the person who cares for you will never ever let you shed a tear.
so just forget ..and go ahead with your happy life..
you might find a person who understands you more well...
this person is not the rite one who deserves your love...dear

Answer 6

Send the same message again, and ask him to respond. Dont assume you could mess up your chances with him if you do. And next time for gods sake, ask him face to face. How would you like it if someone sent you a message saying they were dumping you, and to please not contact them. It sounds like a memo and not feelings of the heart.

#1 rule, technology and love/relationships do not mix

Answer 7

I am sorry to hear that sweety. I hope everything works out for you, Try sending him another message, maybe he didn't get the first one. Good Luck Sweety : )

Answer 8

That usally means he is in shook and doesn't know what 2 do.He might try dating u but he's just confused.Mail him again just asking if he got the mail and how he's doing and stuff like that.Good Luck!!!!

Answer 9

he just doesn't know how to react to that, thats why its usually best to do those things in person, that way you can see their reaction. even though thats scary as hell to do. But just give him time and keep on talking to him as a friend, and he'll come around eventually

Answer 10

Its ok dont cry. Maybe he is just busy crying for joy over ur message
hope you feel better