im a goth.i have an over religious mother, immature brother,perfectionist step facist,and i cant take much more. i cant sleep and i cant focus on my lover.i dont think i can even keep her.im hearing voices that try to explain my pain(my own voice, not others).im not sure what to do. my mother wants me to start being religious, step facist wants me out.i dont know what to do...and while i typed this my lover called to tell me that we are done becuse im too weird.(pulls out hair) please help me!!!!
2007-03-11 06:00:50 · 8 answers · asked by dark_poet_08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you can only be who you are. If you try to be what your mother wants you to be you will end up resenting her. God does not want you if you are not trully wanting to be there. And God knows the difference.
Maybe you should sit down with you mother and family. Explain your feelings and that you are not a bad person.
That for now you are not ready to live life there way. You can be religious and goth to but you need to make that decision yourself.
tell them that you love them and want them to be happy but you have to do what you have to do be who you want to be.
I will pray things get better for you
2007-03-11 06:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness, just calm down and breath, thats what u need to do first. U r obviously comfortable with who u r, u need to let your mom know that and tell her that u respect her religious stuff but its just not u. Also, i done know about his step guy but he can just **** off i personally wouldnt care about his opinion. Im sorry to hear about the girl but there are a million more out there who im sure would be interested in u.
2007-03-11 13:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hearing voices is the simplest form of schizophrenia. Get a mental health evaluation. If nothing else it will help you with the stress you are experiencing. Good luck.
2007-03-11 13:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom it's your life and you can choose to live it however you wish. Find a new lover, build up your courage and apologize to others that you have made feel like crap, this may make you feel better
2007-03-11 13:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Q&A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try just to let everything go. Start over with someone new in your life, new personality, something that will make you feel new and refreshed.
2007-03-11 13:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by Princess of Torture 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone you trust with your problems. It's good taking your anger out.
2007-03-11 13:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to see a therapist and get help sounds like depression and anxiety attacks.
2007-03-11 13:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by katie d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to see a doctor
2007-03-11 14:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋