Do you think decisive, confident, good-looking guys will chase a woman when they they fancy her, no-matter what? If this sort of guy doesn't pursue the woman he has indicated he fancies, does this mean he is not that interested or is he waiting for her to make a move on him instead? what should a woman do when faced with this kind of guy? Ignore him an see if he comes after her or make the move? All opinions welcome.
2007-03-11 06:00:40 · 9 answers · asked by SK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To play games or not to play games, that is the question. It's up to you. He might think you're not interested and move on to someone else, it's a fine line between ignoring him and losing him.
2007-03-11 06:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the guy is really into himself! If he fancies a girl then he'd better go after her! If he's waiting for the girl to make the first move, then he's over confident and may lose out on a good opportunity!
2007-03-11 06:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Chasing women is not a 100% garuntee. I am decisive, and very popular with women. Also if i find a woman that i have interest in, does not mean i will chase. I find waiting and watching to be a more efficient approach. The reasoning behind it, and women usually have 2-3 guys chasing them. But sitting and waiting they are more likely to come to me because i am not showing as much interest. I find this strategy ESPECIALLY effective with very popular women, very beautiful women, and professional women. As for docile and quiet/shy women you will need to be slightly more aggressive because their mentality WILL overlook you.
2007-03-11 06:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kyle E 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let me try to simplify:
Scenario A):
#1: confident/goodlooking guy will take what he can because he knows women will be blinded by this and led by the nose;
#2: women fall for this and get burned - result - hating men;
#3: non-confident but realistic guys stay at home due to lack of dates/being turned down by ladies worrying about motivations of confident/goodlooking guys not asking them out - guys who could care less about feelings of women; realistic guys eventually winding up hating women because they are as shallow as the men they preach against - everybody loses.
Scenario B):
#1: women realize that such confident/goodlooking men are superficial, thus reaching out to average but moral, sensitive and supportive guys;
#2: nice, average guys get to communicate with realistic women, actually getting to go out with them before they have been warped by the "Find 'em, F**k 'em and Forget 'em-type men;
#3: chain of love ordained by God continues the way it should in the real world - everybody wins.
Your choice?
2007-03-11 12:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guys confidence is just an act-hes probably too anxious-
otherwise he should go after his target,providing he and she are unattached-but if thats the case put out a few signals-smile ,be friendly-
2007-03-11 06:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by mr.bigz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she might feel too intimidated. I think he should ask her out if he feels that is why no women are going out of their way to chase him.
2007-03-11 06:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they are at all intelligent then they won't chase anyone "no matter what".
2007-03-11 06:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck yes
2007-03-11 06:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are attracted to different things.
2007-03-11 06:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋