My first date? what to expect?

Answer 1

Just make it like you are with a frined of the same sex. You are to have fun. Don't expect anything "big" to happen and don't let anything "big" happen. This is a first date.

Answer 2

It is expectation that will kill the mood. If you go into a date with preconceived expectation when thing don't go the way you think then your are disappointed. This disappointment is called unfulfilled expectations.

The best mind set to enter a date is go with the flow. Stay in the moment and be responsive to what is happening in present time. For maximum enjoyment of a date let go of the preconceived notion and open yourself to getting to know the real gentlemen you are with. Just relax and let the real you come through. I just hope your date can do the same thing other wise you both may ruin the opportunity to have a great evening.

The point in all this is have no expectation. It will be what it will be. But always be a lady and have basic manners and respect for all others around you most of all your date. When it comes to dating expect the unexpected.

Answer 3

If its a first date expect akwardness on both your parts...and alot of silent moments...see the thing is first dates are alot like first time impressions....even though the person has seen or met you a million times. You and your date would want to make such a great impression that both are afraid to be themselves. A tip do not be all of yourself that is until you both get accustamed to each other ...try and think about topics you may want to discuss cause first dates usually both get silent at some point in time and it is uncomforatble...ask about thier life what they do what they like keep the convo going and the best way to start the convo ask about your dates life...go for a walk as well ...if you are going to a restaurant or the ,ovies talk a stroll after to get to know each other better you know some personal time for you both....dress really nice as well and spray some really nice perfume you apperance has to be tops so you leave a lasting impression so at the end of the date your date would go home thinking hoe nice you looked!!!! got it? lol.....be confident as well says alot for your personality

Answer 4

Don't expect anything except respect! Be yourself, enjoy the date, practice being peaceful and focus on just getting to know the other person. Make your boundaries very clear don't hold hands, no kissing or he will have little respect for you. Be sweet, kind, don't talk badly about anything. And tell this person what time you need to be home. And please introduce him to your parents. At the end of the date simply say you had a nice time (remain calm) and shake his hand and say good bye. Most guys will want more ... don't. If he asks when he can see you again tell him to call you on Wednesday ... that way you can see if he's man of his word and is dependable. Best of Luck to you!

Answer 5

Well, when I take a girl out for the first time I always try to wow her. Usually dinner, in a nicer place, and a movie. I also open car doors, dress nice, etc. I just try to be a gentleman.

Answer 6

First dates are usually awkward so prepare yourself with a lot of silence and tension. Unless you guys were already friends.

Answer 7

Well, on the first date, people usually pretends to be what they are not. So dont give in too easily by these false behaviour. Give it time!!!

Answer 8

Sweety , I hope he is a gentleman , he must take you to dinner and then take you back home .
Don't believe all what he says and be yourself , nothing more than some hand touches and a good bye kiss .
other than that be aware but don't let him feel it .
I hope you will enjoy it .
Take care ;)

Answer 9

just be your self if theres a dead silance in the convorsation try to change the subject dont talk about past relationships unless he brings it up

good luck

Answer 10

ur first date?
um try to make out with him, guys like that a lot