can i get your opinion on?

Question

I met a girl at a friends wedding a month ago - she seemed really positive & fun. she talked a fair bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, come to ask why i'm not on the dace floor with her, coming outside when I was..etc

she crossed my mind a few times since. I got her number from friends new wife, & gave her a call. She was driving at the time so I said I'd call her back in 15 she didn't answer. i text her to say i don't understand what i said in the matter of minutes to make her ignore me and that i would take it she is having a bad day. she text me to say she was having a bad day & that she would be free the next day should i wish to call. i was busy all week so i called her end of the week - no answer. i text her for the last time to contact me back when she is free. i gave her an option to prank me if she had no credit on her phone (she is poor). she text me a few days later apologising for not replying back sooner as she had no credit on phone.

and to give her a call sometime during the day.

why is her excuse always what I am suggesting having it hard, no phone credit?

i am no fool, looking at the current trends she will not answer if i call her back. does she take me for a joke?

Answer 1

Sorry, but I think she's trying to back away from you. She's trying to put the blame on the phone so that any anger you feel will be towards the phone and not her. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings, so she'll still trying to be nice. Wish her well and move on.

Answer 2

Why are you wasting so much time? If she was really interested, she'd have found a way to be back in touch.

She might have been a little drunk and flirty at the wedding. Time now for you to move on.

Answer 3

Remember, 1st, sometimes answering calls cost a lot. Guess, you have to move on with your life. Shes not interested with you. But she doesn't wanna say out loud.